Quote: (04-01-2018 06:24 PM)TheOklahoman Wrote:
The thing about Dallas and really DFW in general. IT is so huge that you really have to know the city well to know what is poppin that night. Not only that, it could be the spot this week and next week it is a miss. The big thing everyone is forgetting about Texas in general. "Everything is bigger in Texas" and that can be good and bad.
Very good point. It's like my EA Sports Madden Analogy. Can't call the same play all the time. You have to be knowledgeable about the entire playbook really to make the right decisions every weekend. For example, you gotta know spots in just about every pocket to not get bored every weekend (Sylvan/30, Bishop Arts, Deep Ellum, the two Korea towns, Highland Park, Preston Hollow, Shops of Legacy, Legacy West, Grand Prairie/Lone Star Park, Downtown, different areas of Uptown, Oak Lawn, Turtle Creek, West Plano, Addison, Richardson, Carrollton, Turtle Creek, Lakewood, Knox Street restaurant game, Henderson etc etc).
Most transplants who move to Dallas have it hard here really. They tend to just try Uptown every weekend or sometimes Lower Greenville/Henderson while just striking out. They stay for maybe about 1-2 years and then lose patience writing off the city altogether.
You'd be amazed by the single talent you might find at hidden spots in coffee shops, etc. What about Target off of Park/North Dallas Tollway? Central Market off of Coit/George Bush or one in Southlake? Apple Store off of Knox Street in Dallas? It's little shit like this that gets ignored off the daygame radar here bc the city/surrounding areas are so damn sprawled out.
Quote: (04-01-2018 06:24 PM)TheOklahoman Wrote:
However, you will find some of the most beautiful women in DFW area. I will also say you'll find a higher concentration of model types in Dallas. People in Dallas are quite educated. Therefore, you better have game. And you're game needs to be tight. You also have to hav a huge concentration of value. Women in Texas seen it all by 22-23 and even smart 7/8s get showered with tons of love therefore most women in Dallas live on a pedestal. The good news, you will find tons of encounters of hot women that may even be out of your league however if you got game it's possible. So that is the good n bad of DFW.
The girls who seem more unattainable in the city are actually not as heavily pursued. Therefore, they can definitely be more attainable.
The 5.5-7 rated gal who plays in kickball/sand volleyball leagues, drinks craft beer, seems like one of the guys, wears flats, hangs at Stirr in Deep Ellum, frequents Truck Yard, and doesn't have as many female friends is the one HEAVILY SHOWERED with attention by thirsty dudes who don't feel as intimidated by those types.
Just sayin...
Quote: (04-01-2018 06:24 PM)TheOklahoman Wrote:
To survive in Dallas, you got to at least have some form of money and doing some good things in life. You have to differentiate value not by talking about money, career n etc but more so about the journey/value that you have learned along the way. Creativity counts bc you got to separate yourself from a guy that makes 70K just like you. So the question you need to answer is why are you different then him.
"Hey..Im a transplant..live in Uptown..am genuinely a cool guy...make 150K+ work long hours during the week..party on weekends..am indeed high value" = that's not good enough in Dallas.
A guy who makes exponentially less with a more interesting backstory, etc can beat a truly high value guy out in this city.
You're absolutely right about the backstory part. The work hard/party hard mentality in Dallas maybe used to work, but it doesn't anymore.....
People that have had interesting experiences in the past, travels, enjoys sporting events, has interesting hobbies, is involved in non-profit groups, plays tennis (or golf) amongst upper spheres of influences, maybe even takes a community college class for continuing ed purposes, goes to language exchange meetups, knows a good Korean BBQ place in suburbs, is in the loop on a art gallery event or cool country music concernt with hotties, etc typically have more interesting angles to play than a guy who makes serious bank but possesses very little leisurely time outside of his long work hours.