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How do I come across as non-creepy?
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How do I come across as non-creepy?

Quote: (03-19-2018 09:34 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:  

Take it back to the basics my friend. Start by doing it and seeing what happens first. Post your approaches here so we can help refine your technique.

Number one, from your post I'm assuming you are in England. Is that true? If so, be prepared to overcome additional coldness. That shouldn't be an excuse however! It should be motivation. If you can pull in England, you'll be well prepared to pull anywhere.

A successful approach begins before you even see the girl. It starts with how you're dressed. There's a saying a buddy of mine has "dress nice, feel nice". Damned if it isn't true. Putting on some sharp clothes will go a long way toward making you feel more confident. If you're dressed well you won't look as creepy either. I'll give you an example:

I'm a young guy, and my target demographic is 18-24. The city I live in is cold, and kind of hipster. Lots of college kids. So I need to accomplish two things to market myself. First, I need to stand out positively, and second, I need to come across as friendly. No problem. The last approaches I did were wearing a tailored black peacoat, a green woolen scarf, slacks, and brown chukka boots paired with a nice pair of the same colored driving gloves. With my outfit I communicated the following: I have good awareness of what looks good, I'm not a creepy slob, and I'm well put together. That alone makes it much easier. It's sub-communicating part of my value proposition that I'm not your average young post college shmuck.

Make sure your hair is cut, and congruent with your vibe. I'm a young professional, so I usually rock a classic comb over fade. It's not an edgy look, but my daygame style isn't edgy. It's more friendly, so it fits for me. Coordinate your hairstyle accordingly. Don't get an edgy haircut and then try friendly game, for instance. This incongruity will make women question you, and make you appear creepy.

I'm not sure what your facial structure is, but generally speaking I would advocate against a beard. Especially not a mustache. I know growing a mustache is a badge of manhood to some Indians (had to convince a friend of mine to shave his so he could get laid), but leave it alone for now. This is fairly hypocritical of me, considering I have a full beard right now, but keeping your skin shaven makes you look more innocent and less threatening.

The second piece is in the non-verbals. You should be sweet talking that girl before you even say a word to her. Make eye contact. Now, what style your body language is depends on you, but I get the sense a friendlier type of approach is well calibrated with who you are. I personally always make eye contact with my eyes on the wider side, and my lips raised slightly. What that does is it opens up my face and eyelids so I appear friendlier. If she makes eye contact back, and she's interested her face should begin to mirror mine. Once I see that, I smile. If she smiles, and then looks down, then I move in.

Some people talk about using the overtly sexual vibe right away, but in my city that can get you in trouble. If she smiled at you, there's a good chance she's interested anyway. I am lucky in this regard though, considering I'm good looking. Move on her in a slow and relaxed way, like you're walking up to an old friend. Speak slowly and assuredly. Normally, 95% of my approach is done before I've even said a word. From there, it's all about building a connection.

I've noticed this is your 4th post. Stick around the forum, and read as much as you can! I would create a thread detailing your approaches and then the resident experts here will help you refine yourself even further. So read, read, read, and read some more my man.

Best of luck!

Wow, I literally have no clue how you managed to guess my sort of style is friendly?! But yeah this sounds good, but I'm confused with one thing. What do you mean English girls are extra cold? (Never visited other countries) Aren't most girls like that?
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