[quote] (03-16-2018 06:10 PM)Nabuchodonozor Wrote:
[quote='arsenal2000' pid='1751983' dateline='1521158908']
Hi Nabuchodonozor ,
Had a couple of suggestions . Can you get a job where you can socialize and meet more new people. This would make it a more natural and easy way to meet new people. Also have you tried social groups like couch surfing , language tandems , meet ups etc as at these places it may be more easier to interact with people than cold approaching .
Not really, I'm going to be a software engineer most likely. Meet ups seem like a good idea if I can convince myself to go.[/quote]
I used to work in software early in my career. You are correct it does not help to advance social skills . Can you look at joining volunteer groups in your spare time. In most of these volunteer groups I have noticed the ratio of girls is higher compared to men. The girls in these groups feel that you share things in common with them making conversations easy.It could put your interactions with woman at ease and help develop your skills.
[quote='arsenal2000' pid='1751983' dateline='1521158908']
Hi Nabuchodonozor ,
Had a couple of suggestions . Can you get a job where you can socialize and meet more new people. This would make it a more natural and easy way to meet new people. Also have you tried social groups like couch surfing , language tandems , meet ups etc as at these places it may be more easier to interact with people than cold approaching .
Not really, I'm going to be a software engineer most likely. Meet ups seem like a good idea if I can convince myself to go.[/quote]
I used to work in software early in my career. You are correct it does not help to advance social skills . Can you look at joining volunteer groups in your spare time. In most of these volunteer groups I have noticed the ratio of girls is higher compared to men. The girls in these groups feel that you share things in common with them making conversations easy.It could put your interactions with woman at ease and help develop your skills.