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Any tactics on shy girls? I met this shy girl and need help on how to pick her up.
She doesn't date and has never had a boyfriend. She seems to be really unsure of herself and is very shy. There are IOI's all over the place and she is flirting and joking about us dating but she instantly steps back and tells me she was just joking if I pursue. She told me she is not interested when I pushed her hard but again, all the IOI's are there and when I went on a date with another girl she was super jealous about it. She even sent me a text message when she was out drinking in the middle of the night asking if I met to the other girl that night. I also gave her a small gift (a safety reflector) and she is always holding and touching it. When I gave it to her she said thanks but tried to give it away to someone else but I said to her "I gave you this gift and are you gonna give it away?" and she changed her mind and kept it and now she is always touching it.
I wonder if shy girls like her need to have more comfort and trust before they go out with you etc.? Also they want to play a lot at first. Like they need to take babysteps and not just go for it.
My plan has been to get closer with her best friend and get her to trust me and feel comfortable with me that way. It has gone well so far as she asked me for lunch with them and was very happy when I later asked them to go with me.
I wonder if this is the best way to go? What are your thoughts? Has anyone any pro tips on this subject?
Any tactics on shy girls? I met this shy girl and need help on how to pick her up.
She doesn't date and has never had a boyfriend. She seems to be really unsure of herself and is very shy. There are IOI's all over the place and she is flirting and joking about us dating but she instantly steps back and tells me she was just joking if I pursue. She told me she is not interested when I pushed her hard but again, all the IOI's are there and when I went on a date with another girl she was super jealous about it. She even sent me a text message when she was out drinking in the middle of the night asking if I met to the other girl that night. I also gave her a small gift (a safety reflector) and she is always holding and touching it. When I gave it to her she said thanks but tried to give it away to someone else but I said to her "I gave you this gift and are you gonna give it away?" and she changed her mind and kept it and now she is always touching it.
I wonder if shy girls like her need to have more comfort and trust before they go out with you etc.? Also they want to play a lot at first. Like they need to take babysteps and not just go for it.
My plan has been to get closer with her best friend and get her to trust me and feel comfortable with me that way. It has gone well so far as she asked me for lunch with them and was very happy when I later asked them to go with me.
I wonder if this is the best way to go? What are your thoughts? Has anyone any pro tips on this subject?