Better to lose the girl because you were too "aggressive" and pushy (which shows huge confidence) rather than, like now, sitting here wondering what could have happened if you weren't so passive. You wouldn't have much too lose and I think it's standard to go in for a kiss on the first date regardless if she doesn't give you the best signals for it.
But if she talked good about feminism, it can't be that much of a loss anyway for you.
But if she talked good about feminism, it can't be that much of a loss anyway for you.