Quote: (02-14-2018 03:09 PM)Northern Wastes Wrote:
Take a step back and reflect on you inner game. Sound's like your self-esteem isn't as solid as it should be.
It sounds like you need these girls to validate you by showing how much they want you, which feels great but when you don't receive it you get bummed out.
In a date like that where it is outdoors it's hard to get all snuggled up like in a bar or club and have her grinding on yo crotch.
The date it's self went fine, maybe the connection just wasn't there. Or she had a good time and would like to see you again. If you're into her try hitting her up again and if she isn't into it you have your answer and next her.
Just try to have fun on dates like these and dates in general. If you're putting off a relaxed fun vibe she'll pick up on that if she likes you. If she is down to go out hiking she is probably fun to some extent. Most outdoorsy chicks like beer/booze so bring some hipster craft micro brew along next time or after suggest you two go to a bar after. Whiskey and tea/coffee in a thermos if it's cold.
I agree on all of these fronts.
I've done some more reflecting and I think it's because when I go on these dates, I don't try to lead the date towards sex..instead I go with the flow and then I wonder why I didn't feel a sexual connection.
I have a date set-up tomorrow, this one should be easy coming to my place cooking dinner and a movie.
I definitely put off a fun relaxed vibe.
I think my inner game needs work.