I've noticed that when I go on a date with a girl, I always seem to have a very pessimistic mindset. It's hard to explain but I'm going to try.
So I was just on a first date with a feminine, sexy girl and I took her on a hike to this waterfall because I needed to get some pictures of the falls for my blog.
She laughed at my jokes, asked me some questions about myself and I asked her questions about herself.
I tried to get into a deeper conversation, but it wasn't really happening.
The hike lasted about 2 hours, I did not try to kiss.
Not out of fear, I just wanted to wait until next time.
But I can't help but feel that the date went bad, and she didn't enjoy it or something.
I seem to have this mindset with all of my dates, unless we have sex then of course I know she enjoyed it (obviously).
It's like she can be smiling, laughing but if she's not clawing at my dick I think she's not enjoying herself.
Makes no sense.
Then I tell myself
"She's just a girl that laughs a lot. It has nothing to do with you."
I seem to rationalize the signs girls show as attraction as something she does with every guy and that I'm not special for making her laugh and smile.
It's a completely backwards way of thinking.
Has anyone else experienced this?
Edit: It's like if she's not smitten with me then I automatically assume she's not attracted. I don't get it.
So I was just on a first date with a feminine, sexy girl and I took her on a hike to this waterfall because I needed to get some pictures of the falls for my blog.
She laughed at my jokes, asked me some questions about myself and I asked her questions about herself.
I tried to get into a deeper conversation, but it wasn't really happening.
The hike lasted about 2 hours, I did not try to kiss.
Not out of fear, I just wanted to wait until next time.
But I can't help but feel that the date went bad, and she didn't enjoy it or something.
I seem to have this mindset with all of my dates, unless we have sex then of course I know she enjoyed it (obviously).
It's like she can be smiling, laughing but if she's not clawing at my dick I think she's not enjoying herself.
Makes no sense.
Then I tell myself
"She's just a girl that laughs a lot. It has nothing to do with you."
I seem to rationalize the signs girls show as attraction as something she does with every guy and that I'm not special for making her laugh and smile.
It's a completely backwards way of thinking.
Has anyone else experienced this?
Edit: It's like if she's not smitten with me then I automatically assume she's not attracted. I don't get it.