thanks man, here are my thoughts below.
I was leading the interaction, by not touching or kissing her. When I went to kiss her on the cheek at the end of the date she twisted her face around to try and kiss me on the lips. It was actually funny. She was expecting me to make out with her.
I know its totally contrary to whats espoused here. But I dont need a first date bang. Pussy isn't a precious, finite commodity for me. They are very easy. Its way easier to kiss. I make out with girls all the time. If I went out more it would be several per night/day. I dont need that. I'll escalate slightly on the second date, then fully on the third date.
Im more interested in really hooking a girl. You do that by holding back. Not "being the sexual instigator". You have to make her think she wants it more than you do. This is game. Everyone dating wants quick sex, men and women. I want to hook a highly attractive good woman, preferably for life. Every guy will try for quick sex, thats not game, those are tactics for sexless guys. Guys that don't jump at attractive girls, set themselves apart. Be the different guy. Let her make the first move. This one asked me to kiss her. She could qualify as an 8+ easily here.
The more I think about it, the less I believe she was malicious with the test. Im just a hot tempered dick head, I could have easily played this. This is a beautiful girl that has not made it work doctors and millionaires. And she cant figure out that it most likely has something to do with her charming personality. Nature can be a bitch too.
Thats me too. I am only looking for a flexible giver, with high integrity. Thanks for the input.
Quote: (02-07-2018 10:35 AM)Noir Wrote:
You fumbled by not leading the interaction into a kiss on the first date and that probably set her hamster off thinking that she is more invested in you. Thereafter, you can expect shit tests (or compliance tests rather) where she will throw hoops for you to jump through to justify to her brain that you are as equally invested in her.
I was leading the interaction, by not touching or kissing her. When I went to kiss her on the cheek at the end of the date she twisted her face around to try and kiss me on the lips. It was actually funny. She was expecting me to make out with her.
I know its totally contrary to whats espoused here. But I dont need a first date bang. Pussy isn't a precious, finite commodity for me. They are very easy. Its way easier to kiss. I make out with girls all the time. If I went out more it would be several per night/day. I dont need that. I'll escalate slightly on the second date, then fully on the third date.
Im more interested in really hooking a girl. You do that by holding back. Not "being the sexual instigator". You have to make her think she wants it more than you do. This is game. Everyone dating wants quick sex, men and women. I want to hook a highly attractive good woman, preferably for life. Every guy will try for quick sex, thats not game, those are tactics for sexless guys. Guys that don't jump at attractive girls, set themselves apart. Be the different guy. Let her make the first move. This one asked me to kiss her. She could qualify as an 8+ easily here.
The more I think about it, the less I believe she was malicious with the test. Im just a hot tempered dick head, I could have easily played this. This is a beautiful girl that has not made it work doctors and millionaires. And she cant figure out that it most likely has something to do with her charming personality. Nature can be a bitch too.
Quote: (02-07-2018 10:35 AM)Noir Wrote:
I would look for integrity over anything else. The looks will attract you into chatting them up but their integrity will keep you around.
Thats me too. I am only looking for a flexible giver, with high integrity. Thanks for the input.