[travolta]

You should not be "nexting" a girl unless you're already getting a lot of pussy already. Telling yourself you're nexting a girl when you have none or very few other girls in rotation is mental masturbation. You only gain a true abundance mentality but actually having abundance. Yes there's an infinite supply of pussy out there, but if you haven't gotten laid in 6 months then sorry, but you don't actually have abundance. Personally if I'm not getting laid much then I'll drop my standards until I'm getting pussy. Build up your rotation, and only drop girls when you have better ones. As others said, only hard next a girl if you want to kill yourself while you're around her she has an STD. You gain confidence with women by having sex with lots of them. "Nexting" a girl who didn't want to fuck you to begin with is not truly nexting. Since you're a newbie you should be fucking almost any girl who is willing to fuck you (within reason of course.. no need to fuck girls who you cannot even get hard with).