Dang, that was a hell of a night out.
Started it off with a very relaxing bath with Epsom salts, drinks and good music. Put me right in the mood.
Then I performed some poetry at an open mic near my house, I was a little nervous but I was happy I did it and pushed myself out of my comfort zone.
Now, let's get to the approaches.
1. Girl sitting at the bar in the cafe on her laptop.
I don't remember what my opener was, I think I asked her what she was working on.
I'd say she was a 6.
The conversation went well, I made fun of her for reading about philosophy. She was reading about our consciousness and how it evolved from single cell organisms.
This conversation was about 10 minutes, it was light-hearted and fun, she took some parts a little too seriously where I was making an obvious joke and she was defending herself.
I told her to come see me later tonight after the show and left.
(I don't know if she remembered, I left with the Scottish girl)
2. Scottish girl sitting at the table on her laptop, intensively studying
Soon as I saw this girl, I had to approach her. I just felt the energy she had and it was connecting with mine.
I walk up to her, asked her what she was reading (any prop a girl has is a great way to open, eg book, laptop, study notes, camera etc).
She showed me the book and we started chatting,
At first it was about the book, then about where she was from and I teased her for moving from Scottland to bumfuck nowhere (where I live). I told her I wasn't expecting to meet a cute Scottish girl tonight but I'm okay with it. She replied back with "You never know what will happen."
Right when the conversation hit its high point, I left her.
I did my own thing for about an hour, talked to the bartender, watched some other performances and approached one more girl before it was time for me to go on stage and recite my shit.
3. Girl sitting at the stage with her friends
Dang, this girl looking back at the night was probably a better chance than the Scottish girl but it's alright. Scottish one was prettier.
(I need to remember that when you DO meet a cute girl, you need to extract her, even if its just to a different place in the venue. I should have told her to come sit with me on one of the couches in the other room for a bit or something.)
I was sitting in my chair and turned to my side, my eyes caught her eyes and I smiled. A small smile washed over her face, I knew I needed to approach.
(One thing Game is making me more aware of is subtle cues in body language and how girls will send out signs telling you to proceed)
I started talking to this girl, she told me she was a BrewMaster and brews her own beer, I asked her if brewing in the tub was really something that you do and I made fun of her for not knowing the name of the beer she's going to make.
(She was all smiles at this point, I should have told her to come to to the bar with me (the bar in the cafe) from there I could change the topic from talking about her brewing into more interesting things like nature, art and so on. Plus we could make fun of other people.)
The conversation didn't last much longer and she went to the washroom or whatever and I recited my poetry.
It felt good going on stage.
The first thing I noticed when I was on stage was that everyone was in their own little worlds. You really have to have a presence to "snap" people out of themselves and have them listen. Towards the end of my performance, I had the audience's attention and was re-telling a story from one of my adventures earlier this week. That's something I want to work on, story-telling. I want to become a better story-teller.
BrewMaster girl came back just as I was walking off stage and said "Oh, shit I missed your performance."
I didn't say anything, just smiled.
My eyes were on a bigger prize (Scottish girl)
I made my way back to the Scottish girl and asked her how the book was coming along, she told me it wasn't and then after some more talking I told her I'm headed to a bar down the street. Come with me.
She was down.
In my head I'm thinking alright, you've got her to come to the bar now you need to start seducing her.
On our way to the street, she told me that she looks terrible and because she worked all day she didn't have time to put make-up on.
(I took this as a good sign, she obviously cared what I thought about her.)
My response was "Nah, you look good."
We got to the bar, I sit down at the table and she sat beside me which sort of took me by surprise. Usually I have to tell the girls I'm with
"No, you sit next to me, this isn't an interview darling."
But she did this right off the bat. I took that as a very good sign.
So we start talking, at first it's about innocent stuff but then she started to bring up dumb shit like how because of her field she has to put men in their place and dominate them and that she enjoys doing this (WTF).
(I notice she's got her legs crossed towards me, so I figure she's into me but I don't know why she's telling me this shit.)
The conversation evolves and I'm starting to figure out what this girl is all about.
I made a cheesy joke how an onion has layers and we're peeling them back.
She's laughing which I take as a good sign to move closer and put my hand on her back.
She visibly recoils when I do this and moves away from me. Okay....
So we continue talking and I see it's going nowhere so I pull back, tell her I'm going to take a piss and while in the washroom I make a game plan of what I need to do.
I decided she's attracted but just isn't comfortable yet, so I need to make her more comfortable.
I get back and I see she was looking at one of the books I had with me in my bag, I catch her and she immediately closes it and pulls her phone out.
The book was a philosophical one mixed with psychology, I figured that would be a good way to comfort her, share a bit about myself.
So now I'm sharing her some stories and there's a level of trust being built.
I purposely brush my hand on her leg and she recoils AGAIN.
Alright, there's something wrong here. I could just fucking sense there was more to the surface and something is blocking her.
Turns out I was right,
She tells me she doesn't trust men, believes men shouldn't be trusted and tells me she enjoys putting men in there place because her career forces her.
Then I came up with a question.
"If you could have all the money in the world, living in Scotland on that super small island. Would you behave the same way?"
She couldn't respond at first.
Then she told me she'd have to make money, which I told her no money is no problem.
Then she says I'd be a teacher and probably a lot nicer of a person.
Bingo.
Then I told her,
"You put on this front of being a powerful girl when really you're the same little girl you were when younger"
She just smiled and looked at the ground.
Then I went to go touch her and she pulled away which she followed with "I've had bad experiences with guys, I don't trust them. I'm single right now and I think I want to be single the rest of my life."
Shit.
After she said that, I told her I'm not looking for anything serious. And then I said, I want to have fun with you tonight.
She looked at me and said "I'm sorry I can't allow that."
I told her "Don't be sorry. Its your choice."
Then she said she needs to get going (it was 12) and that she wanted my number.
I gave her it.
Looking at this seduction, I think I did a lot right and I'm not sure I could have gotten this girl to sleep with me had I changed my game. I think she did have some bad experiences. Very closed off sexually.
But one part of me tells me that for the right guy she would have had sex last night and I wasn't it.
I'm not really sure...
I am very happy I told her that I wanted to have sex with her and I was a lot more open with my sexuality which was a big thing for me.
Maybe some other players can weigh in on this....
4. Cute PSW with her friend
After the Scottish Girl left, I chilled at the table and just started laughing. I thought it was funny how sexually blocked she was.
I chilled for another few minutes and saw two girls come in, they ordered their drinks and I was contemplating if I should approach or not.
I was a little anxious but I've developed a simple trick to help with that.
I simply count down from 5 and when I hit 0 I go approach, OR if by the time I hit 0 I don't approach I will re-start the countdown and after a few restarts I usually do it.
I approached the girl while the other was at the washroom, I asked her how her night was going and some other menial things.
Her friend came back and I told her we should grab a table.
We grabbed a table near the window and started chatting. I was really into the one across from me, she was the prettier one and more feminine which I liked.
The conversation was great, lots of fun and I teased both of them quite a bit during the conversation. When the uglier girl left to go to the washroom I told the girl across from me "you have a cute smile".
She just smiled at me.
But, as I would learn the cute one has a boyfriend who she met on Bumble "rolls eyes". Now I have to go for the ugly friend and at this point, I was drunk and just fucking horny.
God damn.
Now I switched gears and went after the ugly friend (this was a mistake, I shouldn't have done this. I liked her body but face was bad).
But she wasn't really into any of my game. I wasn't even into her either.
When their ride came I told the ugly girl that she should stay for a drink and her hot friend was trying to wing-girl for me but didn't work. They both left and I was left with my dick in hand.
After this I still wanted to get fucking laid, so I scowled the streets in search of girls but the streets were empty and the bars were closing.
Dang.
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I enjoyed last night, I learned more about game and I made 4 approaches which is pretty good.
I'm going out again tonight, I want to hit up a strip club near me and maybe go somewhere else.
Fuck, I still want to fuck.
Today I want to make that happen.
Started it off with a very relaxing bath with Epsom salts, drinks and good music. Put me right in the mood.
Then I performed some poetry at an open mic near my house, I was a little nervous but I was happy I did it and pushed myself out of my comfort zone.
Now, let's get to the approaches.
1. Girl sitting at the bar in the cafe on her laptop.
I don't remember what my opener was, I think I asked her what she was working on.
I'd say she was a 6.
The conversation went well, I made fun of her for reading about philosophy. She was reading about our consciousness and how it evolved from single cell organisms.
This conversation was about 10 minutes, it was light-hearted and fun, she took some parts a little too seriously where I was making an obvious joke and she was defending herself.
I told her to come see me later tonight after the show and left.
(I don't know if she remembered, I left with the Scottish girl)
2. Scottish girl sitting at the table on her laptop, intensively studying
Soon as I saw this girl, I had to approach her. I just felt the energy she had and it was connecting with mine.
I walk up to her, asked her what she was reading (any prop a girl has is a great way to open, eg book, laptop, study notes, camera etc).
She showed me the book and we started chatting,
At first it was about the book, then about where she was from and I teased her for moving from Scottland to bumfuck nowhere (where I live). I told her I wasn't expecting to meet a cute Scottish girl tonight but I'm okay with it. She replied back with "You never know what will happen."
Right when the conversation hit its high point, I left her.
I did my own thing for about an hour, talked to the bartender, watched some other performances and approached one more girl before it was time for me to go on stage and recite my shit.
3. Girl sitting at the stage with her friends
Dang, this girl looking back at the night was probably a better chance than the Scottish girl but it's alright. Scottish one was prettier.
(I need to remember that when you DO meet a cute girl, you need to extract her, even if its just to a different place in the venue. I should have told her to come sit with me on one of the couches in the other room for a bit or something.)
I was sitting in my chair and turned to my side, my eyes caught her eyes and I smiled. A small smile washed over her face, I knew I needed to approach.
(One thing Game is making me more aware of is subtle cues in body language and how girls will send out signs telling you to proceed)
I started talking to this girl, she told me she was a BrewMaster and brews her own beer, I asked her if brewing in the tub was really something that you do and I made fun of her for not knowing the name of the beer she's going to make.
(She was all smiles at this point, I should have told her to come to to the bar with me (the bar in the cafe) from there I could change the topic from talking about her brewing into more interesting things like nature, art and so on. Plus we could make fun of other people.)
The conversation didn't last much longer and she went to the washroom or whatever and I recited my poetry.
It felt good going on stage.
The first thing I noticed when I was on stage was that everyone was in their own little worlds. You really have to have a presence to "snap" people out of themselves and have them listen. Towards the end of my performance, I had the audience's attention and was re-telling a story from one of my adventures earlier this week. That's something I want to work on, story-telling. I want to become a better story-teller.
BrewMaster girl came back just as I was walking off stage and said "Oh, shit I missed your performance."
I didn't say anything, just smiled.
My eyes were on a bigger prize (Scottish girl)
I made my way back to the Scottish girl and asked her how the book was coming along, she told me it wasn't and then after some more talking I told her I'm headed to a bar down the street. Come with me.
She was down.
In my head I'm thinking alright, you've got her to come to the bar now you need to start seducing her.
On our way to the street, she told me that she looks terrible and because she worked all day she didn't have time to put make-up on.
(I took this as a good sign, she obviously cared what I thought about her.)
My response was "Nah, you look good."
We got to the bar, I sit down at the table and she sat beside me which sort of took me by surprise. Usually I have to tell the girls I'm with
"No, you sit next to me, this isn't an interview darling."
But she did this right off the bat. I took that as a very good sign.
So we start talking, at first it's about innocent stuff but then she started to bring up dumb shit like how because of her field she has to put men in their place and dominate them and that she enjoys doing this (WTF).
(I notice she's got her legs crossed towards me, so I figure she's into me but I don't know why she's telling me this shit.)
The conversation evolves and I'm starting to figure out what this girl is all about.
I made a cheesy joke how an onion has layers and we're peeling them back.
She's laughing which I take as a good sign to move closer and put my hand on her back.
She visibly recoils when I do this and moves away from me. Okay....
So we continue talking and I see it's going nowhere so I pull back, tell her I'm going to take a piss and while in the washroom I make a game plan of what I need to do.
I decided she's attracted but just isn't comfortable yet, so I need to make her more comfortable.
I get back and I see she was looking at one of the books I had with me in my bag, I catch her and she immediately closes it and pulls her phone out.
The book was a philosophical one mixed with psychology, I figured that would be a good way to comfort her, share a bit about myself.
So now I'm sharing her some stories and there's a level of trust being built.
I purposely brush my hand on her leg and she recoils AGAIN.
Alright, there's something wrong here. I could just fucking sense there was more to the surface and something is blocking her.
Turns out I was right,
She tells me she doesn't trust men, believes men shouldn't be trusted and tells me she enjoys putting men in there place because her career forces her.
Then I came up with a question.
"If you could have all the money in the world, living in Scotland on that super small island. Would you behave the same way?"
She couldn't respond at first.
Then she told me she'd have to make money, which I told her no money is no problem.
Then she says I'd be a teacher and probably a lot nicer of a person.
Bingo.
Then I told her,
"You put on this front of being a powerful girl when really you're the same little girl you were when younger"
She just smiled and looked at the ground.
Then I went to go touch her and she pulled away which she followed with "I've had bad experiences with guys, I don't trust them. I'm single right now and I think I want to be single the rest of my life."
Shit.
After she said that, I told her I'm not looking for anything serious. And then I said, I want to have fun with you tonight.
She looked at me and said "I'm sorry I can't allow that."
I told her "Don't be sorry. Its your choice."
Then she said she needs to get going (it was 12) and that she wanted my number.
I gave her it.
Looking at this seduction, I think I did a lot right and I'm not sure I could have gotten this girl to sleep with me had I changed my game. I think she did have some bad experiences. Very closed off sexually.
But one part of me tells me that for the right guy she would have had sex last night and I wasn't it.
I'm not really sure...
I am very happy I told her that I wanted to have sex with her and I was a lot more open with my sexuality which was a big thing for me.
Maybe some other players can weigh in on this....
4. Cute PSW with her friend
After the Scottish Girl left, I chilled at the table and just started laughing. I thought it was funny how sexually blocked she was.
I chilled for another few minutes and saw two girls come in, they ordered their drinks and I was contemplating if I should approach or not.
I was a little anxious but I've developed a simple trick to help with that.
I simply count down from 5 and when I hit 0 I go approach, OR if by the time I hit 0 I don't approach I will re-start the countdown and after a few restarts I usually do it.
I approached the girl while the other was at the washroom, I asked her how her night was going and some other menial things.
Her friend came back and I told her we should grab a table.
We grabbed a table near the window and started chatting. I was really into the one across from me, she was the prettier one and more feminine which I liked.
The conversation was great, lots of fun and I teased both of them quite a bit during the conversation. When the uglier girl left to go to the washroom I told the girl across from me "you have a cute smile".
She just smiled at me.
But, as I would learn the cute one has a boyfriend who she met on Bumble "rolls eyes". Now I have to go for the ugly friend and at this point, I was drunk and just fucking horny.
God damn.
Now I switched gears and went after the ugly friend (this was a mistake, I shouldn't have done this. I liked her body but face was bad).
But she wasn't really into any of my game. I wasn't even into her either.
When their ride came I told the ugly girl that she should stay for a drink and her hot friend was trying to wing-girl for me but didn't work. They both left and I was left with my dick in hand.
After this I still wanted to get fucking laid, so I scowled the streets in search of girls but the streets were empty and the bars were closing.
Dang.
_______________________________________
I enjoyed last night, I learned more about game and I made 4 approaches which is pretty good.
I'm going out again tonight, I want to hit up a strip club near me and maybe go somewhere else.
Fuck, I still want to fuck.
Today I want to make that happen.