Just be polite in a confident, zero-fucks-given kind of way. It helps to have a sense of humour.
Imagine a beta holding open the door for a woman. You're imagining what a slave looks like.
Imagine Jason Statham holding open the door for a woman. Your imagining what a professional bodyguard looks like, holding the door open in a way that flexes his muscles without talking or looking at her while he's doing it).
Imagine Arnold Schwarzenegger holding open the door for a woman. You're imagining a cheeky motherfucker making eye contact and saying "good day" with an obvious lilt in his voice, because he knows she got wet the second she saw his build.
Yes, you can be polite and be alpha. Being polite is not the same as being a snivelling worm. Watch some Steven Seagal movies. He's very polite until he's breaking someone's arm. Whether or not you can break someone's arm is beside the point. You can still see value there on being polite and masculine at the same time.
Imagine a beta holding open the door for a woman. You're imagining what a slave looks like.
Imagine Jason Statham holding open the door for a woman. Your imagining what a professional bodyguard looks like, holding the door open in a way that flexes his muscles without talking or looking at her while he's doing it).
Imagine Arnold Schwarzenegger holding open the door for a woman. You're imagining a cheeky motherfucker making eye contact and saying "good day" with an obvious lilt in his voice, because he knows she got wet the second she saw his build.
Yes, you can be polite and be alpha. Being polite is not the same as being a snivelling worm. Watch some Steven Seagal movies. He's very polite until he's breaking someone's arm. Whether or not you can break someone's arm is beside the point. You can still see value there on being polite and masculine at the same time.
The public will judge a man by what he lifts, but those close to him will judge him by what he carries.