I had a Tinder date last night with a 21 y.o Mexican girl that goes to UT in Austin TX. I live in a town 30 minutes south of Austin, but my roommate works in Austin and needed a ride there anyway so it worked out well to meet her there.
It was going well, we played pool, had some drinks, saw a band, and I took her to the empty upstairs section of a bar and we started kissing a lot. She let's me know she's not looking for anything serious and when it felt right I invited her to my place and she agreed to spend the night.
So we get on the interstate and I have the navigation on google maps which indicates a few minute delay which was fine. Then traffic just stopped...for 30 minutes we didn't move an inch, we were stuck. This wouldn't be a huge problem except I now have to pee so bad that it's becoming very painful and I don't know what to do. The psychology of being totally stuck and having to pee after drinking was making the pain worse.
I tell her I really need to pee and she half jokes you can pee in that can but then i won't fuck you. I half laugh and consider it but don't do it. A few minutes later, still stuck she sees the pain in my face and says it's ok just do it.
I do it, and pour it out the door.
She then says she just wants to go home and sleep in her bed. I tried to talk her out of it but her mind was made up.
We go to her place and she jumps out and says text me when you get home.
I had to sit through the same traffic jam twice to get home. which made a 30 minute drive take over 2 hours.
I wake up and she unmatched me on tinder.
Maddening.
Any thoughts?
It was going well, we played pool, had some drinks, saw a band, and I took her to the empty upstairs section of a bar and we started kissing a lot. She let's me know she's not looking for anything serious and when it felt right I invited her to my place and she agreed to spend the night.
So we get on the interstate and I have the navigation on google maps which indicates a few minute delay which was fine. Then traffic just stopped...for 30 minutes we didn't move an inch, we were stuck. This wouldn't be a huge problem except I now have to pee so bad that it's becoming very painful and I don't know what to do. The psychology of being totally stuck and having to pee after drinking was making the pain worse.
I tell her I really need to pee and she half jokes you can pee in that can but then i won't fuck you. I half laugh and consider it but don't do it. A few minutes later, still stuck she sees the pain in my face and says it's ok just do it.
I do it, and pour it out the door.
She then says she just wants to go home and sleep in her bed. I tried to talk her out of it but her mind was made up.
We go to her place and she jumps out and says text me when you get home.
I had to sit through the same traffic jam twice to get home. which made a 30 minute drive take over 2 hours.
I wake up and she unmatched me on tinder.
Maddening.
Any thoughts?