Hey guys,
I'm a Indian guy in my late 20s.
I've only recently stated to become successful and they know it.
These guys know me as the 'quiet guy who doesn't talk" although they can't say that now as I communicate a lot over the past 2 years. it's just disrespect.
The Aunty:
-she doesn't want me to do better than her sons
-she's gossips and exaggerates a lot about me
The son:
-is an arrogant man
-wants to be better than me
-he's put me down and tried to bully me in front of others
The youngest Son (who's 21)
-I respected him a lot before and he was a decent guy
-He's now starting to disrespect me and I think he's influenced by his older brother and mother who constantly chat crap and mock me behind my back.
-He said before and again I can't get a girl (he doesn't know me and he can't justify this).
-They are calling me a liar (they don't think I'm developing websites)-but who is/they to say?
The dad
-Said one time "if my dad doesn't help out, how can I get a wife". I don't need my dad to help out lol
I've been told by my other cousin (who went to their house yesterday) the mother and those 2 son's who I mentioned above was mocking me because they think I'm lonely, single and I can't get a girl. The youngest son said "yeah right, as if he can".
Once again, they saying this out of their own arrogance, they don't know me.
How can I keep the power, reply back?
This is affecting my self esteem.
They have the arrogance to say that, what is the best way to reply back, if not reply, keep the power? (by being happy?)
Thanks for replying!
I'm a Indian guy in my late 20s.
I've only recently stated to become successful and they know it.
These guys know me as the 'quiet guy who doesn't talk" although they can't say that now as I communicate a lot over the past 2 years. it's just disrespect.
The Aunty:
-she doesn't want me to do better than her sons
-she's gossips and exaggerates a lot about me
The son:
-is an arrogant man
-wants to be better than me
-he's put me down and tried to bully me in front of others
The youngest Son (who's 21)
-I respected him a lot before and he was a decent guy
-He's now starting to disrespect me and I think he's influenced by his older brother and mother who constantly chat crap and mock me behind my back.
-He said before and again I can't get a girl (he doesn't know me and he can't justify this).
-They are calling me a liar (they don't think I'm developing websites)-but who is/they to say?
The dad
-Said one time "if my dad doesn't help out, how can I get a wife". I don't need my dad to help out lol
I've been told by my other cousin (who went to their house yesterday) the mother and those 2 son's who I mentioned above was mocking me because they think I'm lonely, single and I can't get a girl. The youngest son said "yeah right, as if he can".
Once again, they saying this out of their own arrogance, they don't know me.
How can I keep the power, reply back?
This is affecting my self esteem.
They have the arrogance to say that, what is the best way to reply back, if not reply, keep the power? (by being happy?)
Thanks for replying!