I don't think all eye contact is equal.
Despite battling shyness I've reached a place where I'm pretty calm meeting women on a first date and holding eye-contact. But the context of the conversation is a problem, as it falls into job inverview style data-dumps.
If the conversation doesn't get primal in some way, then the eye contact doesn't accomplish anything other than to prove that you're suitable for the friendzone. Listening to her rattle off all her jobs and travel destinations is not primal.
The eye-fucking thing is an art and I have trouble with it. I kind of sense she's already attracted and receptive before I turn it on.
Despite battling shyness I've reached a place where I'm pretty calm meeting women on a first date and holding eye-contact. But the context of the conversation is a problem, as it falls into job inverview style data-dumps.
If the conversation doesn't get primal in some way, then the eye contact doesn't accomplish anything other than to prove that you're suitable for the friendzone. Listening to her rattle off all her jobs and travel destinations is not primal.
The eye-fucking thing is an art and I have trouble with it. I kind of sense she's already attracted and receptive before I turn it on.