[Mufasa]

(11-28-2017 02:18 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  

This thread might have started out on a relatively innocent note but it's touched on something extremely important.

Any man, from young players through seasoned swoopers, be extremely careful of losing your ability to bond with people selflessly and create genuine tribe.

Finding a wife and creating a family fundamentally involves abandoning any sort of petty points scoring system where you keep a mental tally of "what does this person have to offer me this day/week/month/year/decade."

The genetic instincts of humans are to build and cultivate tribe. Don't realise this too late. It doesn't matter what shiny new code of ethics you find on the internet or how many likes you get on an MGTOW forum. It doesn't matter if the dating market is currently nasty or the legal system is screwed. As the years and decades tick by none of those excuses are going to make that nagging void disappear.

Cant beat thousands of years of evolution.

But of course its going that way steelex. the fact that you have a live in girlfriend is evidence of this. Weather you're fucking around on her or not for whatever the reason is you have permitted her to claim you and visa versa.

And to be honest I think it stems from mastery of "true abundance mentality"
Players will typically refer to this as there are more fish in the sea, but i think as you become a more seasoned and efficient slaying machine you come to realize there are more fish in the sea and they will be right there where I left them"

This is kind of where I'm at with my current main girl.
I'd say that giving this girl my exclusivity in the past wouldn't have been an option. "I can find another one" I would have said. Today "I can find another one" is why this girl may become baestation. She is better than most girls and if it doesnt work out "I can find another one" because these hoes aint going anywhere.