Quote: (11-12-2017 05:35 PM)rapaz12 Wrote:
Generally, I've never liked it ..... but ultimately I can't deal with it because it makes me feel like I'm not connecting with the woman.
^ You said it ^
I think you answered your own question. The point of becoming a man is to realize that you don't have to do a damned thing that you don't want to for the sake of pleasing women. There are billions more of them so if you don't like girls that won't talk to you on the phone then get on down the road and keep approaching until your pipeline is full of women that do what you want.
I like girls that answer their phone as well. I like to set up chats or "phone dates". I keep them rather short, 15 - 20 min. Lots of guys here might think it's a waste of time but I think it's a great way to build comfort. Use the tone of your voice to flirt, run patterns, drop bait, etc. I very much prefer this to sending texts in between dates. I also think it keeps the girl more interested as I don't like to see a girl more than two or three times a month. And I'm really a cold texter ... I just don't like it.
All that being said ... seems silly to next a girl because she doesn't talk on the phone. You'll be nexting 95% of the population of women!! Just clarify right up front what her preferred mode of conversation is. Tell her you don't do "textversations" and then if you are into her and want to call her, call her. If she is not satisfying your desire for phone talk (or any others) .... next.