"Everything in moderation" is a cliche, but cliches become cliches because there's truth to them. And that applies here.
Regarding "women with experience:" I just posted over on Dalrock about why they're not marriage material. When you date or marry them, you never become "the one" because you're just "someone." They see you as "just another d*ck," as one woman so eloquently put it to me years ago.
Every high-number-count woman I knew from high school and college who married has been through multiple divorces. That's no surprise. What comes as a surprise to many men is alimony, child support, and getting thrown out of the house. This is the part they don't show on all those Lifetime and Hallmark movies that serve as barometers of romance in our society.
But there's another side to this coin.
A lot of women I know who seem a bit too eager to shout "I'm a Christian!" have issues. They use religion as a shield to keep men at bay because of deeper troubles, which sometimes have to do with being sex-phobic, frigid (as mentioned already in this thread), or closeted lesbians.
One of my uncles found out about sex-phobia the hard way when he married a religious Catholic-Italian. Turned out she'd been so indoctrinated into the "sex is sinful and dirty!" mindset that she freaked out about sex and had a hard time physically having it.
When I was young, in 1980s and 1990s, a lot of "Jesus Freak girls" were ex-druggies or former alcoholics who found God after trouble and/or the law found them. This can often mean misfortune in the future, needless to say.
But here's more bad news. Even if you find a woman who isn't too trashy or too religious you might be in for problems. American society seems to produce dysfunctional women, because (as we all know) pushing them into male professions and forcing male stress upon them makes them neurotic.
So you might end up with the career woman who is always "on the go" and too busy to have sex. The wife in the film "American Beauty" is a good example of this. Yes, that was fictional, but it hit home because we all know women like that.
Ten years into the future, that woman becomes the sexless "sick wife." Why is she sick? Because she worked herself into some sort of illness. Women aren't built like men. Men have beards and muscles and were designed to brave the elements. Raise your hand if you ever got badly injured but recovered almost as quick. My hand is up! Women often don't recover. My ex-wife never did. Decades of stress wears on them in bad ways. Watch out for this.
Finally, there's the woman who makes being a mother her entire world. This is a type of informal American religion: Child Worship. In this country we have too many parents who make kids "their everything," so we get the wives who "shut down" sexually after they've had a kid or two. They're the ones who were long-haired babes at 25 but morph into dowdy, short-haired blobs who can't emotionally relate to their husbands anymore.
As I wrote up front, moderation is key. Fanatics in any respect don't make for good spouses, whether they're religious freaks, sex fiends, or workaholics.
For what it's worth, several studies since 2009 linked having a higher education level with lower divorce. So a woman with a grad school degree might be the closest we come today to the "church girl" of the past.
Regarding "women with experience:" I just posted over on Dalrock about why they're not marriage material. When you date or marry them, you never become "the one" because you're just "someone." They see you as "just another d*ck," as one woman so eloquently put it to me years ago.
Every high-number-count woman I knew from high school and college who married has been through multiple divorces. That's no surprise. What comes as a surprise to many men is alimony, child support, and getting thrown out of the house. This is the part they don't show on all those Lifetime and Hallmark movies that serve as barometers of romance in our society.
But there's another side to this coin.
A lot of women I know who seem a bit too eager to shout "I'm a Christian!" have issues. They use religion as a shield to keep men at bay because of deeper troubles, which sometimes have to do with being sex-phobic, frigid (as mentioned already in this thread), or closeted lesbians.
One of my uncles found out about sex-phobia the hard way when he married a religious Catholic-Italian. Turned out she'd been so indoctrinated into the "sex is sinful and dirty!" mindset that she freaked out about sex and had a hard time physically having it.
When I was young, in 1980s and 1990s, a lot of "Jesus Freak girls" were ex-druggies or former alcoholics who found God after trouble and/or the law found them. This can often mean misfortune in the future, needless to say.
But here's more bad news. Even if you find a woman who isn't too trashy or too religious you might be in for problems. American society seems to produce dysfunctional women, because (as we all know) pushing them into male professions and forcing male stress upon them makes them neurotic.
So you might end up with the career woman who is always "on the go" and too busy to have sex. The wife in the film "American Beauty" is a good example of this. Yes, that was fictional, but it hit home because we all know women like that.
Ten years into the future, that woman becomes the sexless "sick wife." Why is she sick? Because she worked herself into some sort of illness. Women aren't built like men. Men have beards and muscles and were designed to brave the elements. Raise your hand if you ever got badly injured but recovered almost as quick. My hand is up! Women often don't recover. My ex-wife never did. Decades of stress wears on them in bad ways. Watch out for this.
Finally, there's the woman who makes being a mother her entire world. This is a type of informal American religion: Child Worship. In this country we have too many parents who make kids "their everything," so we get the wives who "shut down" sexually after they've had a kid or two. They're the ones who were long-haired babes at 25 but morph into dowdy, short-haired blobs who can't emotionally relate to their husbands anymore.
As I wrote up front, moderation is key. Fanatics in any respect don't make for good spouses, whether they're religious freaks, sex fiends, or workaholics.
For what it's worth, several studies since 2009 linked having a higher education level with lower divorce. So a woman with a grad school degree might be the closest we come today to the "church girl" of the past.