Quote: (11-05-2017 10:10 PM)Mountain Man Wrote:
Call her. I'm sure you sent your name after getting her number so if she answers then you know that she saved it and is into you. Or, if she calls back quickly after hearing your message you know that she is into you. Many girls don't even set up their voicemail or it is full so you'll end up sending a text anyways.
Calling a girl is something that most other people won't do so you'll stand out. As suggested above it also gives you the opportunity to let her know up front that you do not have textversations.
I think the call before the text is ballsy so that's why I do it but sending out a few texts and then going for the call sounds ok too.
Best practice: Try both!! Keep track of your results and share them here!!
Usually I ask out through text but like I said, I feel it gives girls less of a commitment to go through with the date. So I called this new prospect that I met at the bar on Friday night. She didn't answer (no surprise there) so I shot her a text saying "Hey call me back when you got a chance"
She replies pretty quickly saying: Im watching netflix with friends whats up
Sounded like she was trying to get some power over me by instead of calling me back, asking why I was calling so I replied
Nm, I think I found the cure to cancer and needed to tell someone so call me when youre free
She left me on read. I would assume that if she refuses to call back then I would've wasted even more time trying to text back and forth to set something up, so this could be a good way of screening.