[kaotic]

(10-31-2017 04:36 PM)bgbusiness Wrote:  

Lol.
I am good, no thanks.

Exactly because you aren't bringing anything constructive to the conversation.

If my actions don't match my words, I expect to be quoted and called on it, then corrected.

That's how things work, we're bringing constructive criticism in the push to help you over to the other side. It's not us giving you shit and attacking you, we're seeing things OBJECTIVELY.

There are some holes in your game that need to be shored up, this forum is here to help, but you have to be willing to listen, there tons of guys in your shoes that are moving forward.


I mean I even pointed out in another thread to you:

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(10-31-2017 03:39 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(10-30-2017 09:43 PM)bgbusiness Wrote:  

I have realized and internalized some of new ideas.
1. Girls are really bad friends.
- Recently, I texted some female friends that I had in the past, as they are emotionally creatures and you don't bring immediate value to their life, they either did not respond or responded days later.
- I have heard that girls don't give a shit about how many years you been friends with, but I have finally internalized it after few instances where that came out to be true.

The only type of girl friend is a friend with benefits. The only exclusions may be child hood friends, your friends wives, and girlfriends.

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2. Girls will go on tinder/bumble dates with you just for validation and attention.
- These girls don't want to sleep with you. They know you can fuck them and dump them.
- They only want to tease you, get the free meal if possible or whatever and dip out.
- They will even text you that it won't work out. I have heard this from a girl who I wouldn't even cold-approached in real life. The only reason I went out with her is because she messaged me first and I thought it would be an easy lay.

This sounds like a game level issue on your part.

In the past 3 years, I've never been on a dinner date with a girl I haven't fucked yet, matter of fact, I rarely have gone to dinner with any of the chicks I've banged.

You can assume the sale, but it needs to be scalable.

I think the biggest thing I cant point in you experience is you didn't filter girls well enough and didn't grab her interest.

I've had hundreds of dates, most have been succesful to a point, rarely have I paid for booze/or apps and not gotten anything out of it.

Hell I've done sober cost free dates at parks or outside coffee shops.