I've been with two actual Indian girls (read: girls that actually grew up in India). Both were 20-21 years old.
First was a bitchy 8 sorority girl, one of, if not the hottest girls I've ever had in my bed. Thai mom, Indian dad, came here for college. Shit tests for days and her personality was such a turnoff I couldn't get hard.
Second was my regular fuckbuddy this summer. Came to the US for college. Also gave tons of shit tests but some of the best sex I've ever had, loved to be dominated. Her shit tests were really easy to defuse, If I just stayed silent for a couple seconds she would recant.
So my very small anecdotal experience matches up somewhat with yours.
First was a bitchy 8 sorority girl, one of, if not the hottest girls I've ever had in my bed. Thai mom, Indian dad, came here for college. Shit tests for days and her personality was such a turnoff I couldn't get hard.
Second was my regular fuckbuddy this summer. Came to the US for college. Also gave tons of shit tests but some of the best sex I've ever had, loved to be dominated. Her shit tests were really easy to defuse, If I just stayed silent for a couple seconds she would recant.
So my very small anecdotal experience matches up somewhat with yours.