Yeah, I know exactly where your coming from. When around certain women, no matter how many times you 'pass' shit tests / compliance tests, they seem to keep trying to chip away at you like waves eroding a rock. Its definitely due to years of conditioned behavior and being spoiled by every other man in their life. It takes a while to break them of the habit, and some women may ever be able to be completely rehabilitated by even the most alpha of men.
Compliance becomes so expected, that when a woman first experiences non-compliance, they take a legitimate emotional / ego hit. This often results in a negative reaction / emotion being redirected toward you. Some guys will fold at this point and comply, as this is the goal of the guilt trip she then lays on you.
A quote from my current girlfreind:
"I've never heard 'no' so much in my life (referring to me). I think your the first guy whos ever told me 'no'."
Its also tough because there is a grey line, in both societies and a womans mind, between what comprises beta / unnecessary compliance and what constitutes "chivalry" or respect from a man. Many modern women will delude themselves into thinking they are entitled to having every whim indulged, and that non-compliance is an insult to their status as a woman. These women take non-compliance personally. I enjoy telling these women 'no' the most.
The first solution is to avoid the spoiled bitches who exhibit such behavior. Its not every woman who behaves like this; but, unfortunately, a disproportionate amount of hot ones will. If you want to consistently socialize with hot women, you should become resolved to not running away from, but instead dealing with this behavior.
If you want to get into a relationship with a woman like this, in my experience, it generally takes a while for them to stop testing you, even if your rarely / never comply with unreasonable requests. This sucks, but it is a price that needs to be paid.
It becomes an exercise in compromise, where you train her to only make reasonable and respectful requests, that you can comply with and she can feel respected, while you turn down the overwhelming amount of impulsive / unreasonable requests. After a while, she will be reconditioned and used to hearing 'no'. But still be prepared for a lot of requests, as she is used to making them.
Its probably unrealistic that you will ever reach a place where a woman like this makes 'zero' requests. So, you have to strike a balance. Comply with the small reasonable stuff, and don't comply with the large / unreasonable stuff. With a strong willed hot woman, good luck reaching a state of zero compliance with every request. It just becomes too tiresome to fight her all the time. While the 'player' doctrine says differently, I think that this is the reality in any relationship that would span beyond three months.
Compliance becomes so expected, that when a woman first experiences non-compliance, they take a legitimate emotional / ego hit. This often results in a negative reaction / emotion being redirected toward you. Some guys will fold at this point and comply, as this is the goal of the guilt trip she then lays on you.
A quote from my current girlfreind:
"I've never heard 'no' so much in my life (referring to me). I think your the first guy whos ever told me 'no'."
Its also tough because there is a grey line, in both societies and a womans mind, between what comprises beta / unnecessary compliance and what constitutes "chivalry" or respect from a man. Many modern women will delude themselves into thinking they are entitled to having every whim indulged, and that non-compliance is an insult to their status as a woman. These women take non-compliance personally. I enjoy telling these women 'no' the most.
The first solution is to avoid the spoiled bitches who exhibit such behavior. Its not every woman who behaves like this; but, unfortunately, a disproportionate amount of hot ones will. If you want to consistently socialize with hot women, you should become resolved to not running away from, but instead dealing with this behavior.
If you want to get into a relationship with a woman like this, in my experience, it generally takes a while for them to stop testing you, even if your rarely / never comply with unreasonable requests. This sucks, but it is a price that needs to be paid.
It becomes an exercise in compromise, where you train her to only make reasonable and respectful requests, that you can comply with and she can feel respected, while you turn down the overwhelming amount of impulsive / unreasonable requests. After a while, she will be reconditioned and used to hearing 'no'. But still be prepared for a lot of requests, as she is used to making them.
Its probably unrealistic that you will ever reach a place where a woman like this makes 'zero' requests. So, you have to strike a balance. Comply with the small reasonable stuff, and don't comply with the large / unreasonable stuff. With a strong willed hot woman, good luck reaching a state of zero compliance with every request. It just becomes too tiresome to fight her all the time. While the 'player' doctrine says differently, I think that this is the reality in any relationship that would span beyond three months.