Quote: (10-22-2017 05:53 AM)BlueMark Wrote:
Quote: (10-22-2017 05:24 AM)bgbusiness Wrote:
Usually I would say kiss on the first date.
For the most part, my lays have been all kisses on the first date, lay on the 2nd, 3rd or 4th+.
The only girl that I have slept with thatI didn't kiss on the first date was a girl who was a virgin and have only kissed on guy before. However, I still went for the kiss 4 times during 1.5 hour date on the first date.
Was it too much? Maybe. Did I get the Lay on the 3rd date? Yes.
It will show that you got the balls and will make her think about sleeping with you. Roosh V also emphases how important it is to kiss on the first date.
If it's like social circle setting and you guys have 1vs1 one hour coffee date, you should get a kiss out of it, unless the date sucked dick and if you don't kiss the girl, she will think that you are not into her or that she messed up somewhere during the date.
But in this thread, a lot of posters are saying not to kiss until we are in a place where it can escalate to sex:
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So this lack of certainty really fucks me up mentally on dates. It's cost me a few bangs I think, because I get too indecisive, wondering what to do, and it comes off as too passive to the girl.
Make sure to gauge if the chick is moderately conservative if she is, try to go for the kiss on the first date in hopes of getting two more dates and then escalate for sex on the third date. If she is not that conservative then only kiss and escalate for sex where you can do both on the first date. But you will need to adapt your game to the type of chick and situation, and it will always be dependant exactly on what you want from them on that first date.
So your options to not over complicate things are:
1. If your goal is to possibly have a relationship with a chick then play the multi-day date game.
2. If your goal is to simply pump and dump or bang on the first date then obviously do the first date game and kiss/bang only where you can do both. Just next the chicks that don't go for the bang, some bangs may be left on the table, who cares. That will happen to everyone no matter what.
Either option can still net you some fuck buddies.
For me since I'm not looking for anything long-term, my focus is to just pump and dump sluts and keep a few fuck buddies for a little while. Not letting the rotation get too stale, plus they bore me quickly.
Tom Leykis / Leykis 101:
-Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing.
-Don't ask a woman what she wants to do.
-Never get involved with a co-worker unless you don't mind losing your job over it.
-Never spend more than $40 on a date. If possible, let her pay for everything or 50/50.
-If she doesn't bang you by the third date, Dump That Bitch (DTB).
-No spooning, cuddling, hugging, or staying over. Get in, get out!
-Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are 25+ or really ready to settle down.
-Men age like fine wine, women age like milk.