I am also a bigger person. Women will be a lot more responsive if you have a good sense of humor. It will help lower their guards if you really believe you are intimidating them.
Due to your size, both men and women will look at you and think that you're built like a tank, and nothing can hurt you. I throw in some self-deprecating humor to make myself appear more vulnerable. And when they see you're able to laugh at yourself, they won't be afraid that they will say something that would set you off and put them through a wall.
You also have to loosen up with your body language. Don't look or act intense at parties. Make yourself approachable and wear a smile on your face. Talk to everyone, doesn't matter if you say two words to the person, make people comfortable at the party and also with you.
When people see that you're a chill guy who likes to crack jokes and socialize with everyone, that will immediately make you more approachable and attractive. Due to your size, you would be able to control the room, so take advantage of it.
Due to your size, both men and women will look at you and think that you're built like a tank, and nothing can hurt you. I throw in some self-deprecating humor to make myself appear more vulnerable. And when they see you're able to laugh at yourself, they won't be afraid that they will say something that would set you off and put them through a wall.
You also have to loosen up with your body language. Don't look or act intense at parties. Make yourself approachable and wear a smile on your face. Talk to everyone, doesn't matter if you say two words to the person, make people comfortable at the party and also with you.
When people see that you're a chill guy who likes to crack jokes and socialize with everyone, that will immediately make you more approachable and attractive. Due to your size, you would be able to control the room, so take advantage of it.
Reporter: What keeps you awake at night?
General James "Mad Dog" Mattis: Nothing, I keep other people awake at night.
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