Even if they just come over to kind of 'feel you out', having a girl at your place can easily be transitioned into at least a makeout and a bang if you play it right. I have a pre-game ritual that revolves around the following things.
- Condoms (check)
- Clean house, make sure your place smells good too. If the girl is especially attractive I sometimes bake cookies or something a few hours before they come over so my place smells nice, 'Yeah, I was baking some cookies for my little cousins' or something [My cousins are 21, 17 and 16] (check)
- Supplementing the clean house, you don't want to look like you spent 3 hours getting it together for your visitor; that's trying too hard. I always make sure the kitchen and the bathroom are clean, but I like to set it up like there's still a little bit of disorder. Sometimes I leave a shirt hanging over a chair or a belt / shoes on my bedroom floor, CDs and DVDs on the coffee table or maybe some documents or something that shows that while you like a clean place, you're a busy man (check)
- If you have something particularly interesting that could be a conversation piece, I like to have it prominently placed. For example, I have an antique crystal ball about the size of a basketball that I have placed on the coffee table beside my couch, and sometimes I even play 'fortune teller' and look into it to get the girl's future, 'The mists are clearing...you will meet a handsome, daring man very soon' and the like. Sounds stupid, but as you know, that type of thing is a money move (check)
- Food in the fridge in case you get hungry (nice DHV, check)
- Or, you can have the numbers of a good takeout / delivery spot on grip (check)
- Wine / Beer / Alcohol with mix (check)
- I myself like to have a jay or two rolled. Lots of girls love weed (check)
- Music; I've got a good little collection ranging from Indie stuff (such as the Shins, Death Cab and Stars...lots of girls love Stars), Motown-Stax (Curtis, Marvin, James Brown, The Temptations etc.,), Jazz (Coltrane, Miles, Mingus), Hip Hop (anything from East Coast to G-Funk to Kanye) and a wide variety of New and Classic Rock (check)
- Movies; essential. Lately I've been watching movies like Vicky Cristina Barcelona, American Beauty and Shaun of the Dead with girls. The key with having a girl watch a movie at your place is that the movie should not be overly long, have some form of romance with a bit of humor, excellent scenery or cinematography and a good soundtrack, chicks love aesthetically pleasing stuff like this in their movies (check)
- Lighting; Slightly dimmer or lower lit than usual. There's no need to get crazy with candles or stuff like that, but whenever I have a girl over I like to have my dimmer switch set to around 60-70% of the normal level. She'll be a lot less self-conscious about her (real or perceived) imperfections if the lights hide them (check)
And really other than that, just make sure your place is comfortable and you're on your game and you'll do fine.
- Condoms (check)
- Clean house, make sure your place smells good too. If the girl is especially attractive I sometimes bake cookies or something a few hours before they come over so my place smells nice, 'Yeah, I was baking some cookies for my little cousins' or something [My cousins are 21, 17 and 16] (check)
- Supplementing the clean house, you don't want to look like you spent 3 hours getting it together for your visitor; that's trying too hard. I always make sure the kitchen and the bathroom are clean, but I like to set it up like there's still a little bit of disorder. Sometimes I leave a shirt hanging over a chair or a belt / shoes on my bedroom floor, CDs and DVDs on the coffee table or maybe some documents or something that shows that while you like a clean place, you're a busy man (check)
- If you have something particularly interesting that could be a conversation piece, I like to have it prominently placed. For example, I have an antique crystal ball about the size of a basketball that I have placed on the coffee table beside my couch, and sometimes I even play 'fortune teller' and look into it to get the girl's future, 'The mists are clearing...you will meet a handsome, daring man very soon' and the like. Sounds stupid, but as you know, that type of thing is a money move (check)
- Food in the fridge in case you get hungry (nice DHV, check)
- Or, you can have the numbers of a good takeout / delivery spot on grip (check)
- Wine / Beer / Alcohol with mix (check)
- I myself like to have a jay or two rolled. Lots of girls love weed (check)
- Music; I've got a good little collection ranging from Indie stuff (such as the Shins, Death Cab and Stars...lots of girls love Stars), Motown-Stax (Curtis, Marvin, James Brown, The Temptations etc.,), Jazz (Coltrane, Miles, Mingus), Hip Hop (anything from East Coast to G-Funk to Kanye) and a wide variety of New and Classic Rock (check)
- Movies; essential. Lately I've been watching movies like Vicky Cristina Barcelona, American Beauty and Shaun of the Dead with girls. The key with having a girl watch a movie at your place is that the movie should not be overly long, have some form of romance with a bit of humor, excellent scenery or cinematography and a good soundtrack, chicks love aesthetically pleasing stuff like this in their movies (check)
- Lighting; Slightly dimmer or lower lit than usual. There's no need to get crazy with candles or stuff like that, but whenever I have a girl over I like to have my dimmer switch set to around 60-70% of the normal level. She'll be a lot less self-conscious about her (real or perceived) imperfections if the lights hide them (check)
And really other than that, just make sure your place is comfortable and you're on your game and you'll do fine.