I've had three different opportunities to have sex in my life (three different girls), and each time I failed because I couldn't get an erection. The first time I was pretty drunk, so I blame it on that. The other two times though, I was stone cold sober. I don't think it's an organic or physiological problem, since I wake up with morning boners all the time and I have no trouble getting hard when I'm all alone watching porn. I think the cause of my ED is psychological. It's like a sort of performance anxiety. When I'm about to have sex, I think about the end result so much and the pressure mounts to the point where I am too stimulated to relax enough to enjoy the moment. Needless to say, I feel horrible about it. Not a day goes by that I don't think about it.
I've taken a couple measures already. First of all, I've decided to quit watching porn and jerking off. After watching the TEDx talk "The Great Porn Experiment", I realized porn addiction may be the cause of my issue (porn induced ED). I'm 2 weeks into it. Hopefully if I go several months without jerking it to porn, my libido will go back to normal along with my penile sensitivity.
In addition, I've acquired three pills of Viagra in case I get lucky in the immediate future. My plan is to use the Viagra the first couple times then ween myself off of it. I feel like if I can manage to get one solid boner and lose my virginity, the anxiety will dissipate and I will be able to breath a big sigh of relief.
If all else fails, I will lose it to a prostitute.
Thoughts?
I've taken a couple measures already. First of all, I've decided to quit watching porn and jerking off. After watching the TEDx talk "The Great Porn Experiment", I realized porn addiction may be the cause of my issue (porn induced ED). I'm 2 weeks into it. Hopefully if I go several months without jerking it to porn, my libido will go back to normal along with my penile sensitivity.
In addition, I've acquired three pills of Viagra in case I get lucky in the immediate future. My plan is to use the Viagra the first couple times then ween myself off of it. I feel like if I can manage to get one solid boner and lose my virginity, the anxiety will dissipate and I will be able to breath a big sigh of relief.
If all else fails, I will lose it to a prostitute.
Thoughts?