Quote: (10-10-2017 07:12 PM)Ouroboros Wrote:
I find it incredible that people keep complaining about the supposedly growing antipathy towards the white male in SEA. Granted I only spent a few weeks in Indonesia (although I've gamed plenty of Asian girls studying in my country), but I (as an young white male of average looks) encountered none of this - girls are infinitely easier to bed than in the West, and there was no cockblocking from the men (some guys even invited me and the girl I was with one night to their table and bought us drinks - strangers would never spontaneously do that in my home city).
Maybe if you're particularly old, ugly or fat things have gotten harder, and perhaps you can't get away with cringeworthy anti-game (why would you do this anyway? The great thing about Asian girls is that they don't need Western clown game, you can just act normal and confident). That's just too bad. No one should be complaining that in order to get results you have to avoid dressing like a slob, avoid being obese, and have basic social awareness, discretion and politeness - the fact that this works at all with Asian girls is a blessing, because it will get you nowhere in the West.
On the topic of this thread: Churros hit the nail on the head - discretion is all important. Being indiscrete is anti-game with Asian girls. Broadcasting one's conquests (or attempts) does no good to anyone.
You're implying there is no such thing as an increased antipathy towards white male in SEA because you visited Indonesia once and didn't experience it there.