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(10-07-2017 10:56 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

When I was a college and when I go back to game, I'll make out with girls in the bar. This is because most of these college places are absolute shit shows, where people are grinding and making out all over the place in a drunken haze, so it's normal.

I also went to school in New Orleans, where bars don't close, so the "pull" would happen between 2-3 AM, it's dark and everyone's looking for a connection.

Your college bars might be different, especially if they're closing early and everybody's not black out drunk.

Better yet - try making out with them, but only as a gesture. Make out with her for all of 30 seconds, in a private area of the bar or outside, then go back and socialize some more. At this point she's "yours," your intentions are clear, all it takes is the actual pull.

The bars close at 2 here and you're right it may not be that much of a shit-show. Usually I do that; i'll kiss her for 30 seconds then pull away and go back to talking.

(10-07-2017 10:56 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

4. Try to change your approach for the actual pull. "Let's get the fuck out of here" is a line I use, it implies sex with the "fuck" but doesn't say "hey we're going to my place to fuck." It gives them a little closure that you're just leaving. Then you just head to your place...don't say anything or ask for permission to bring her home.

More direct and less beta I like that line.

(10-07-2017 10:56 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

5. What's your follow-up to go for a day 2? If you're trying to actually date girls in college this could be a big no no.

I've had just about enough dating for college. Say I meet a girl on Friday night and get her number, I would text her on Saturday to see if she's going out or invite her to a party. They're usually responsive to this but then really flaky.

(10-07-2017 10:56 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

6. Keep your nose to the grindstone. You're two weeks into the game. Give it a few years and you'll come back and laugh at this thread

Thanks, I was a virgin up until college and i've consistently gotten hotter and hotter girls. Hopefully it won't be too long until I can consistently pull quality 8's/9's.