Most important is the first minute after opener in my opinion because you have to calibrate really quickly without many hints and set the original frame.I think most women decide in the first minute if they will fuck you.So the concentration needed in this crucial time cannot be emphasized.
I think most guys screw up in this time length because it is very pressing.It is like the football player who has just one chance and has to act quickly otherwise the ball is lost.
Usually the mental strain can be very exhausting.
For example in first minute I use a usual opener and then judge by the reaction of the girl my chances.Let's say you walk on the street and there are moving targets and stable targets.You choose one target according to some criteria(for example girls not in a hurry or strolling without any particular direction).Then you throw your opener.Then the reaction can be very unexpected despite how smooth you are.Let's see the logic.
1.The girl has a totally different thing in mind so she does not have any mood to be involved with you no matter how charming you are.She wants to accomplish sth at the moment and you are just a nuisance.
2.The girl is in a very bad mood because sth bad happened to her this day so she will give negative responses to any approach.
3.The girl likes to give negative responses because it makes her feel powerful.
4.The girl does not want to seem receptive in front of her friends.
5.The girl has bad experience after having picked up this way.
6.The girl knows of one of her friends who had bad experience after having picked up this way.
7.The girl thinks that you will seduce her by experience and puts on defensive mechanism.
This is important.When a girl understands you run game on her she will become more shit testing.So it is better to make some mistakes during pick up to appear more original.Of course not do so many mistakes that you lose the girl.You need to find a balance.
Generally you need to be one step ahead in every single moment and predict every possible reaction by body attitude vibe etc althugh girls can always susprise us.
For example if a girl has another thing in mind her eyes go left up because she remembers it.When the girl has very bad mood her eyes go down right because she remembers what she heard.
If the girl likes to give negative responses she has a big smile while doing so and treats you ironically like some kind of idiots.Some guys even miss irony.To this irony I answer with irony under the irony so the conversation becomes strange.
If the girl does not want to seem receptive in front of her friends she checkes her friends' face every now and then to check their approval.
If the girl has bad experience she has a sad face.Women's emotions are actaully painted on their faces.
If a girl thinks you are going to seduce her by experience it is usually your fault.Perfection causes suspicion.Just like the guy with the suit who tries to steal you thinking he is above suspicion.If you appear perfect it may smell fishy to her.So you have to play perfection imperfection.
The usual plays:
1.Gay non gay
2.Smooth rough around the edges
3.Talkative silence
In general the point is to confuse the girl somehow drive her to an extreme land and relieve
I think most guys screw up in this time length because it is very pressing.It is like the football player who has just one chance and has to act quickly otherwise the ball is lost.
Usually the mental strain can be very exhausting.
For example in first minute I use a usual opener and then judge by the reaction of the girl my chances.Let's say you walk on the street and there are moving targets and stable targets.You choose one target according to some criteria(for example girls not in a hurry or strolling without any particular direction).Then you throw your opener.Then the reaction can be very unexpected despite how smooth you are.Let's see the logic.
1.The girl has a totally different thing in mind so she does not have any mood to be involved with you no matter how charming you are.She wants to accomplish sth at the moment and you are just a nuisance.
2.The girl is in a very bad mood because sth bad happened to her this day so she will give negative responses to any approach.
3.The girl likes to give negative responses because it makes her feel powerful.
4.The girl does not want to seem receptive in front of her friends.
5.The girl has bad experience after having picked up this way.
6.The girl knows of one of her friends who had bad experience after having picked up this way.
7.The girl thinks that you will seduce her by experience and puts on defensive mechanism.
This is important.When a girl understands you run game on her she will become more shit testing.So it is better to make some mistakes during pick up to appear more original.Of course not do so many mistakes that you lose the girl.You need to find a balance.
Generally you need to be one step ahead in every single moment and predict every possible reaction by body attitude vibe etc althugh girls can always susprise us.
For example if a girl has another thing in mind her eyes go left up because she remembers it.When the girl has very bad mood her eyes go down right because she remembers what she heard.
If the girl likes to give negative responses she has a big smile while doing so and treats you ironically like some kind of idiots.Some guys even miss irony.To this irony I answer with irony under the irony so the conversation becomes strange.
If the girl does not want to seem receptive in front of her friends she checkes her friends' face every now and then to check their approval.
If the girl has bad experience she has a sad face.Women's emotions are actaully painted on their faces.
If a girl thinks you are going to seduce her by experience it is usually your fault.Perfection causes suspicion.Just like the guy with the suit who tries to steal you thinking he is above suspicion.If you appear perfect it may smell fishy to her.So you have to play perfection imperfection.
The usual plays:
1.Gay non gay
2.Smooth rough around the edges
3.Talkative silence
In general the point is to confuse the girl somehow drive her to an extreme land and relieve