Pregame for me was always about loosening people up and/or getting strangers having a shared experience...
Either class it up "champagne party" which was a rarity unless I was with some bottle buyer type who had a sick place and was willing to buy bottles of moet at liquor story. (If I recall it's like $35-$50 a pop)
However, bread & butter have always been shots...
- Make girly shots that taste good BUT still strong
- The obligatory "opening" EVERYONE SHOTS (We used to do 15-20 people taking shots together)
Something I learnt from my boy but never personally implemented other than 1 time I brought 2 girls to his place...
- Coors Light (In highball glass)
- Bacardi 151 (In Shot Glass)
Drop shot glass into high ball glass and CHUG...
This was goodtimes hahaha
I never went to a on-campus college so the cheap fun ideas I've never experienced. Nonetheless forget name of coors + bacard = chugging..
Nonetheless...Either keep it edgy or super fancy for atmosphere purposes. Miss the old days of 25 girls 5 guys pregaming in a penthouse. I'd always get chicks having a blast and by time we get to the club ENERGY WAS GREAT!!!
I once pulled a chick who lived in a luxury building...Her floor only had 1 NEIGHBOR...
She told me her neighbors are 3 frat boys who NEVER GO OUT they just have house parties on the weekends. I can only imagine the goodtimes to be had if they are doing things proper.
From my experience...
Crowd > Atmosphere/Music > Drinks to facilitate atmosphere (super fancy or edgy) = Indulgence
Few others...
- Don't get the gals too drunk (if going to a table after)
- Girl bias ratios (Less guys the better, 3-2 ratio being bare minimum)
- Better to have MORE THAN ENOUGH alcohol (Bottles can be gone through QUICK)
- Upbeat Party Music...Forget "chill" shit...Trust me you want people opening up & getting loose from NOW so you can go CRAZY at venue
AFTER PARTY...
- Have key area seatings as main (sharable seatings best)
- Have semi isolated seatings around place so 2-4 people can chill
- Be creative...You never know who might need extra seating in bathroom for whatever reasons hahaha
- Have some form of covers (If others can't see, things may be done even if it's obvious/implied whats going on...No one really really care as long as you don't)
Guy & Girls will be able to find an area to fool around. Have seen/heard/done many things in bathroom. (Every after party has had people chilling in bathroom hahaha) Those who aren't going to fool around (whether they have BFs or not into anyone) and just want to continue the fun will chill in main area with the rest.
I've done after parties with friends where they will just go in room having sex while everyone is just chillin in main area.
P.S...After parties is only place where I actually enjoy PROPS for instigator purposes. One of my clients used to have a stripper pole in his living room...Use imagination. (I can only imagine a TWISTER MAT just chillin prior to leaving or a stash of s&m type toys open view in main area)
Either class it up "champagne party" which was a rarity unless I was with some bottle buyer type who had a sick place and was willing to buy bottles of moet at liquor story. (If I recall it's like $35-$50 a pop)
However, bread & butter have always been shots...
- Make girly shots that taste good BUT still strong
- The obligatory "opening" EVERYONE SHOTS (We used to do 15-20 people taking shots together)
Something I learnt from my boy but never personally implemented other than 1 time I brought 2 girls to his place...
- Coors Light (In highball glass)
- Bacardi 151 (In Shot Glass)
Drop shot glass into high ball glass and CHUG...
This was goodtimes hahaha
I never went to a on-campus college so the cheap fun ideas I've never experienced. Nonetheless forget name of coors + bacard = chugging..
Nonetheless...Either keep it edgy or super fancy for atmosphere purposes. Miss the old days of 25 girls 5 guys pregaming in a penthouse. I'd always get chicks having a blast and by time we get to the club ENERGY WAS GREAT!!!
I once pulled a chick who lived in a luxury building...Her floor only had 1 NEIGHBOR...
She told me her neighbors are 3 frat boys who NEVER GO OUT they just have house parties on the weekends. I can only imagine the goodtimes to be had if they are doing things proper.
From my experience...
Crowd > Atmosphere/Music > Drinks to facilitate atmosphere (super fancy or edgy) = Indulgence
Few others...
- Don't get the gals too drunk (if going to a table after)
- Girl bias ratios (Less guys the better, 3-2 ratio being bare minimum)
- Better to have MORE THAN ENOUGH alcohol (Bottles can be gone through QUICK)
- Upbeat Party Music...Forget "chill" shit...Trust me you want people opening up & getting loose from NOW so you can go CRAZY at venue
AFTER PARTY...
- Have key area seatings as main (sharable seatings best)
- Have semi isolated seatings around place so 2-4 people can chill
- Be creative...You never know who might need extra seating in bathroom for whatever reasons hahaha
- Have some form of covers (If others can't see, things may be done even if it's obvious/implied whats going on...No one really really care as long as you don't)
Guy & Girls will be able to find an area to fool around. Have seen/heard/done many things in bathroom. (Every after party has had people chilling in bathroom hahaha) Those who aren't going to fool around (whether they have BFs or not into anyone) and just want to continue the fun will chill in main area with the rest.
I've done after parties with friends where they will just go in room having sex while everyone is just chillin in main area.
P.S...After parties is only place where I actually enjoy PROPS for instigator purposes. One of my clients used to have a stripper pole in his living room...Use imagination. (I can only imagine a TWISTER MAT just chillin prior to leaving or a stash of s&m type toys open view in main area)