Quote: (08-20-2017 06:38 PM)BlueMark Wrote:
Possible lessons to be learned:
- Don't contact her the day after at this early stage, especially I have lingering uncertainties like what I posted earlier. Waiting for an answer would have helped me keep my cool.
- Second date should have been somewhere away from home, like a park or museum, to contrast with first date.
Yeah i think you "scared the cat" by following up too soon. Also displayed neediness.
On the date, yeah suggesting a date at her own house is not much fun for her. You don't have to do too much but it's overfamiliar and she wouldn't be able to leave if things went bad. At your own place might have been better. Neutral ground and out and about would still be better IMO.