Many girls who seem to have bitch shields actually don't, as docsedated summed up. I think our perception of the non-existent bitch shield has to do with:
1. The fact that girls aren't very open and not actively inviting you to talk.
2. The mans insecurity and resulting "profile" they subconsciously attach to the girl.
A lot of times labeling the girl as having a bitch shield is unwarranted, and the girl will open up if you talk to her like she's a normal person. The key is talking to her like she's nothing special. If you do put her on a pedestal, she will know it and act accordingly. Even if there was no bitch shield to begin with, you can easily cause her to have one in many instances.
For girls that actually have bitch shields up already, the bitch shield can exist for a number of reasons. If you haven't spoken with her before, then her bitch shield is up because she is profiling you as being just like the guys that have caused her to have the shield up to begin with. You have to show her that you aren't the same as those guys. Or, if you have talked with her and the bitch shield is up, then you are behaving in a way that is like other guys.
Specific situations that will cause a girl to put up, or keep up, a bitch shield:
1. Interacting with her in a way that pretends that you don't want sex from her, or otherwise pretending that you have an agenda other than sexual, when in fact both she and you know that your end goal is sex.
In other words, you want something from her and she knows it. But you are pretending that you don't. This is insincere, unnatractive and sneaky behavior that she is used to defending herself from; as its the strategy of probably 90% of men out there. The bitch shield is her front line of defense from this strategy. Read Mode One by Alan Roger Curie for more insight into this.
2. Treating and talking to her like she is someone special. Women don't want to be the adventure, they want to go on an adventure (Zan? I think). All chodes treat her like she is something special. This is excessively boring to her, and you may as well cut your balls off as far as she is concerned, because you are rendering yourself asexual in her eyes. This doesnt mean that you have to "neg" her or other fairly useless and predictable BS, as she has been getting 'negged' since she's been 12. Just interact with her like she is a normal flawed human being. No special attention in negging her or similar treatment, which is just a reverse way of paying special attention to her. Treat and talk to her just like you would a girl who you weren't attracted to. When you want to let her know that you are attracted, do so that there are no misunderstandings and don't have any outcome dependence (see #1 above). But then continue to treat her normally. You HAVE to realize that No one but the most skilled men do this with very attractive women. By NOT treating her special, you are setting yourself apart as someone special. The bitch shield will come down in kind.
3. She is hellbent on not being open to any guy for any reason. She could be pregnant, deeply in love with an Alpha male who she has her life planned out with, angry at men or in general, grieving, psychotic or any number of things that are out of your control. Even the best players cant take down every bitch shield. Only most bitch shields.
1. The fact that girls aren't very open and not actively inviting you to talk.
2. The mans insecurity and resulting "profile" they subconsciously attach to the girl.
A lot of times labeling the girl as having a bitch shield is unwarranted, and the girl will open up if you talk to her like she's a normal person. The key is talking to her like she's nothing special. If you do put her on a pedestal, she will know it and act accordingly. Even if there was no bitch shield to begin with, you can easily cause her to have one in many instances.
For girls that actually have bitch shields up already, the bitch shield can exist for a number of reasons. If you haven't spoken with her before, then her bitch shield is up because she is profiling you as being just like the guys that have caused her to have the shield up to begin with. You have to show her that you aren't the same as those guys. Or, if you have talked with her and the bitch shield is up, then you are behaving in a way that is like other guys.
Specific situations that will cause a girl to put up, or keep up, a bitch shield:
1. Interacting with her in a way that pretends that you don't want sex from her, or otherwise pretending that you have an agenda other than sexual, when in fact both she and you know that your end goal is sex.
In other words, you want something from her and she knows it. But you are pretending that you don't. This is insincere, unnatractive and sneaky behavior that she is used to defending herself from; as its the strategy of probably 90% of men out there. The bitch shield is her front line of defense from this strategy. Read Mode One by Alan Roger Curie for more insight into this.
2. Treating and talking to her like she is someone special. Women don't want to be the adventure, they want to go on an adventure (Zan? I think). All chodes treat her like she is something special. This is excessively boring to her, and you may as well cut your balls off as far as she is concerned, because you are rendering yourself asexual in her eyes. This doesnt mean that you have to "neg" her or other fairly useless and predictable BS, as she has been getting 'negged' since she's been 12. Just interact with her like she is a normal flawed human being. No special attention in negging her or similar treatment, which is just a reverse way of paying special attention to her. Treat and talk to her just like you would a girl who you weren't attracted to. When you want to let her know that you are attracted, do so that there are no misunderstandings and don't have any outcome dependence (see #1 above). But then continue to treat her normally. You HAVE to realize that No one but the most skilled men do this with very attractive women. By NOT treating her special, you are setting yourself apart as someone special. The bitch shield will come down in kind.
3. She is hellbent on not being open to any guy for any reason. She could be pregnant, deeply in love with an Alpha male who she has her life planned out with, angry at men or in general, grieving, psychotic or any number of things that are out of your control. Even the best players cant take down every bitch shield. Only most bitch shields.