Quote: (08-16-2017 02:38 PM)lonewolf1992 Wrote:
70% of girls are in it because of VALIDATION.
The paradox of choice has turned them into chronic window-shoppers.
Last time I went through the meat-grinder I wound up investing a lot of time building rapport in the initial messaging/chat and a few times got telephone numbers and began texting only to never get her out on a first date.
I've had to seriously recalibrate how I rank prospects because of all this and be much more DGAF in the chat. If women aren't willing to put in effort then I won't chase them.
The funny thing is that I'm sure they all still expect guys to chat them up endlessly to move them down through the funnel but I simply don't have the patience for this anymore.
There are only X number of single women in any given radius. If you have some sort of dating interaction with them that trails off, that's it. You'll never evaluate that person again as a potential mate. Done. Finished. Forever. How many women ever really think about who they might be passing up by carrying on half-hearted conversations and letting them fizzle? It's their loss, not mine. If I was never a contender in the first place then she never should have swiped right and messaged me.