How do you blabber endlessly to keep a girl attentive and avoid "awkward silences"?
08-17-2017, 09:53 AM
Ideally...
You shouldn't. Most of the time your job is to keep her blabbering about herself and just ask good questions to keep things rolling forward. Also learn to think like a salesman. The more any "prospect" keeps talking, the more you learn about how they think and you can use that information to your advantage.
And don't be afraid to gently poke with some "why" questions. If your goal is what it probably is based on your post just don't argue past that; find some indirect way of complimenting them being really smart and caring.
Find a good active listening program. There's a few out there and others that can help as well. Even Toastmasters makes you go through some exercises in their introductory program.
You shouldn't. Most of the time your job is to keep her blabbering about herself and just ask good questions to keep things rolling forward. Also learn to think like a salesman. The more any "prospect" keeps talking, the more you learn about how they think and you can use that information to your advantage.
And don't be afraid to gently poke with some "why" questions. If your goal is what it probably is based on your post just don't argue past that; find some indirect way of complimenting them being really smart and caring.
Find a good active listening program. There's a few out there and others that can help as well. Even Toastmasters makes you go through some exercises in their introductory program.