[Herr Dickenstein]

(08-01-2017 09:09 AM)Jetset Wrote:  



I get it. You're fresh out of a breakup and are idealizing the next piece of ass. It's OK.

However, be self-aware enough to see it for what it is.

The girlfriend has been acting irrational and batty. If you take her back, she'll learn that she can do this and you'll take her back.

I would suggest fucking her friend if that's on the table, because that's most likely something that's in the back of her friend's mind, and then walking away from the situation. The girlfriend should be demoted to nothing more than a plate, and finding out about you and her friend will probably set her straight about her behavior. You should take some time for self-improvement and independence so you can see things clearly. Do not try to jump into a new LTR with the friend, because that's just your grief over the lost LTR talking.

It's possible that the best friend and your ex wrote to you on the same day because the ex gave the best friend her side of the story and the best friend had a gut reaction that she was a delusional bitch and told her so, in kinder words. If that's the case, maybe the best friend isn't interested. We can't know because we aren't there. At the minimum, you could offer to meet for coffee to "catch up" and see what happens. This will enrage your ex beautifully whether it works out or not.

I know when I'm idealizing someone and when I'm not because I've been through several typical beta situations in the past. However, trust me, her best friend struck me as the most normal girl I'd ever seen since the first moment I got to know her almost 2 years ago. Of course I can't fuck her, you missed the part where I wrote that she's literally the most red pilled traditional wife material you could find. She's a virgin and won't go to bed with anyone before marriage. That alone sets her apart from 99% of her peers in the modern day western world.

What I'm wondering is, should I risk everything I have to secure the maximum prize or should I stay in my comfort zone with my current girlfriend who is, despite her apparent flaws, still better than 90% of her peers and I had the time of my life with her.