Ouch, that's rough.
I'm not gonna go NAWALT here or anything, but I guess the positive spin might be that only a certain percentage of single women are online dating- I read awhile back that it was like %25. I'm not sure how accurate that is, but at least it suggests that a majority still are not.
The realities of online dating are harsh. It's a huge time suck for little payoff unless you're in the top 2%. I wouldn't fuck with getting into it at this point if you're out there approaching.
I'll offer a follow up story to parallel yours OP.
Last year I went to a birthday party with a girl I was seeing. The sister of the host couple was there- I'd met her the month before at her brother's wedding. Not a great looking girl, a low 6 at best with a trashy tattoo, but a nice personality.
She had come with her roommate- a beastly blonde girl- probably like 5'8" and close to 300 lbs. A 2/10. Maybe a 3 for some guys who don't mind being crushed.
My girl expressed how gross she thought it was that this chick wore her iPhone in her bra.
I heard her in a conversation about tinder, and my attention perked up. She complained:
"All these guys wanna do is text and send me picture of their dick." Clearly she wasn't getting the results she wanted. Make of that what you will.
The beast of a roommate though - according to the 6, was killing it on tinder. Two guys on rotation that she scheduled regularly on respective nights. I couldn't imagine anyone having sex with this beast.
Her last line still echoes in my brain:
"And these are like, good looking guys!"
I'm not gonna go NAWALT here or anything, but I guess the positive spin might be that only a certain percentage of single women are online dating- I read awhile back that it was like %25. I'm not sure how accurate that is, but at least it suggests that a majority still are not.
The realities of online dating are harsh. It's a huge time suck for little payoff unless you're in the top 2%. I wouldn't fuck with getting into it at this point if you're out there approaching.
I'll offer a follow up story to parallel yours OP.
Last year I went to a birthday party with a girl I was seeing. The sister of the host couple was there- I'd met her the month before at her brother's wedding. Not a great looking girl, a low 6 at best with a trashy tattoo, but a nice personality.
She had come with her roommate- a beastly blonde girl- probably like 5'8" and close to 300 lbs. A 2/10. Maybe a 3 for some guys who don't mind being crushed.
My girl expressed how gross she thought it was that this chick wore her iPhone in her bra.
I heard her in a conversation about tinder, and my attention perked up. She complained:
"All these guys wanna do is text and send me picture of their dick." Clearly she wasn't getting the results she wanted. Make of that what you will.
The beast of a roommate though - according to the 6, was killing it on tinder. Two guys on rotation that she scheduled regularly on respective nights. I couldn't imagine anyone having sex with this beast.
Her last line still echoes in my brain:
"And these are like, good looking guys!"