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(07-07-2017 08:18 AM)subterfuge Wrote:  

I'm in my 30's. Some people say I look younger.

I've never been travelling and want to spend a few nights in a foreign place with a party vibe to see If i'm able to get any more joy with girls than i do back home due to the girls inhibitions being down since she's travelling.

But I worry about looking out of place due to my age.

Reading some travelling blogs this morning, I keep reading things like ''Creepy old guys trying to hit on the cute 17 year old girls in the kitchen area'' and things like that from other young travellers stories

I'd love to go with a friend but all of my friends have settled down or are banging various girls, and i'm the only one who's never got a girl so I don't have anyone to go with, really.

But I was tihnking about booking a party hostel in Hungary for a few nights.

Anyone have any experiences they can share?

I've wondered the same.

1. Don't worry about it. Mindset is key.
2. "Creepy" is a term for "was not attracted". As a man, you should already know this. As a 30 something, you should have some calibration to test the waters of attraction, and if they aren't there, pull back. I was called creepy as a 29 year old at the bar by a chick I'd hardly even knew existed.

Besides, if you 30 something and look younger, you probably aren't to the older creepy dude age yet.

Like I said, even if you are, it's in your head.

I swear as men, we're more worried about being called creepy than being killed in warfare.