Quote: (07-06-2017 12:10 PM)Lights Wrote:
Quote: (07-06-2017 09:44 AM)Hazaer Wrote:
Hey guys, have a situation which might be a potential flake. Here it goes.. Went to a restaurant where a girl I met through a mutual friend a year ago was working. She attended to us but I did not acknowledge the familiarity. But I did when my friends and I were paying for the food by mentioning the mutual friend's name and the meetup we had which was actually predrinking on a saturday. She said she recognized me as well. Asked her if she was still staying at the same place, how her uni is going etc. Later i asked for her fb, realized my mistake as she turned to do something else and got her number instead when she turned back.
The weird thing is she never got my name. Is this going to be a flake when I text her? And how do I identify myself without overdoing it and how long should I wait, alsoshould I mention the mutual friend's name? I think Roosh advocates 2-4 days and discourages the weekends but assuming this event occurred on a Thursday when and what would you text her given my anonymous nature to her in this case?
I dont usually mention another guy's name in my texts but in this case, it might be unavoidable such as in the following sample:
'hey X its hazaer, we met at the Y diner and happen to have Z as a mutual friend.how are you'
Obviously, focussing on this one girl is not good form but I would like to bring this out to illustrate if it is even worth getting the number in a scenario such as this where you can barely talk to the girl for a minute during the transaction so you cannot not establish comfort in the usual day game conversation style although you might have barely known her before.
Thank you for your opinions and ideas.
hey
call her.
call her. if she picks up, ask her when she gets off work, if she wants to meet for a quick drink.
tell her it was good seeing her. feel the vibe out. get it over with.
show your intentions. let her know youre interested. if she can't or whatever say ok maybe some other time, hang up and hit her again next week with the same thing.
its funny because stick in the mud guys will do anything but say " hey i like you " or " hey you're sexy i wanna take you back to mine
game is seduction. seduction is mystery. announcing who you are and every single detail is counterproductive ....... be mysterious, leave things out, make her guess, make her gears in her brain start turning and whatnot. make her wonder about you
"comfort" is overrated. girls will feel as comfortable as you feel with yourself.
i can tell a. you probably wont call her and b. youll mess it up
because by the way you type you use too many big words and you feel like you need to "establish" everything, all the details. she recognized you but she didn't bring it up, you did.
Good point.. it might have been a good thing I didnt tell her my name.
In line with roosh's book and the social ineptitude of the uni girls of today, i was thinking of texting instead of calling her in the standard 2-4 day period but since it is the weekend, i am not sure if she will respond as she might have weekend plans with her buddies and so might want to put on the 'busy' vibe. I might give it 3 days and text sunday
Yes on hindsight, telling too many details about our last meeting wasnt the best strategy but how else can you open a girl at the counter and get some sort of connection going with the 60s that you have and customers waiting behind, hearing you going for her personal details when she is actually working. Thats why I used familiarity as an opener to get some convo going. But yes, it might have been better to use an innocent opener and then mention the familiarity later.