Hey guys, have a situation which might be a potential flake. Here it goes.. Went to a restaurant where a girl I met through a mutual friend a year ago was working. She attended to us but I did not acknowledge the familiarity. But I did when my friends and I were paying for the food by mentioning the mutual friend's name and the meetup we had which was actually predrinking on a saturday. She said she recognized me as well. Asked her if she was still staying at the same place, how her uni is going etc. Later i asked for her fb, realized my mistake as she turned to do something else and got her number instead when she turned back.
The weird thing is she never got my name. Is this going to be a flake when I text her? And how do I identify myself without overdoing it and how long should I wait, alsoshould I mention the mutual friend's name? I think Roosh advocates 2-4 days and discourages the weekends but assuming this event occurred on a Thursday when and what would you text her given my anonymous nature to her in this case?
I dont usually mention another guy's name in my texts but in this case, it might be unavoidable such as in the following sample:
'hey X its hazaer, we met at the Y diner and happen to have Z as a mutual friend.how are you'
Obviously, focussing on this one girl is not good form but I would like to bring this out to illustrate if it is even worth getting the number in a scenario such as this where you can barely talk to the girl for a minute during the transaction so you cannot not establish comfort in the usual day game conversation style although you might have barely known her before.
Thank you for your opinions and ideas.
The weird thing is she never got my name. Is this going to be a flake when I text her? And how do I identify myself without overdoing it and how long should I wait, alsoshould I mention the mutual friend's name? I think Roosh advocates 2-4 days and discourages the weekends but assuming this event occurred on a Thursday when and what would you text her given my anonymous nature to her in this case?
I dont usually mention another guy's name in my texts but in this case, it might be unavoidable such as in the following sample:
'hey X its hazaer, we met at the Y diner and happen to have Z as a mutual friend.how are you'
Obviously, focussing on this one girl is not good form but I would like to bring this out to illustrate if it is even worth getting the number in a scenario such as this where you can barely talk to the girl for a minute during the transaction so you cannot not establish comfort in the usual day game conversation style although you might have barely known her before.
Thank you for your opinions and ideas.