I did a few approaches since then but no result. I'll describe the last one since they are basically the same. I am at one of those truck stops with the multiple restaurants in them. The hostess at one of them asks if I am eating there. I ask her why should I? Anyway, she's a solid 6 and we go back and forth for a bit before I go in. I had wanted to go there beforehand. I eat and then it takes a minute after I am done. I joke along the lines of no rest for wicked. Her smile instantly disappears and it turns from a decent interaction to a transactional one to put it nicely.
You'll say she's nice in the beginning to get me to go there and I'll agree. My concern is this happens with other women who aren't at work when I am approaching. I've tried various levels of energy, stuff based on the situation, joking and not joking but I am assuming they are picking up signals like depression and such from me I'm not aware of at the time but I know are there. So I am approaching to a small degree but not doing well.
The side gig I picked up has allowed me to pay off my furniture loan and some gas money to boot. My primary job has hit a spike up for now and I am grabbing some of the hours there.
My weight has plateaued along with most other things in my life right now.
You'll say she's nice in the beginning to get me to go there and I'll agree. My concern is this happens with other women who aren't at work when I am approaching. I've tried various levels of energy, stuff based on the situation, joking and not joking but I am assuming they are picking up signals like depression and such from me I'm not aware of at the time but I know are there. So I am approaching to a small degree but not doing well.
The side gig I picked up has allowed me to pay off my furniture loan and some gas money to boot. My primary job has hit a spike up for now and I am grabbing some of the hours there.
My weight has plateaued along with most other things in my life right now.