Quote: (06-29-2017 09:14 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:
Quote: (06-29-2017 08:20 PM)Hazaer Wrote:
Quote: (06-22-2017 08:53 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:
Quote: (06-22-2017 07:44 PM)Hazaer Wrote:
Quote: (06-19-2017 06:58 AM)Hazaer Wrote:
Hey guys, there was this girl who I met about a year and a half ago. She was interested but I kind of hesitated and didnt go for the kill when the time was right but we kind of still hung out. Then she moved on to another city. So, if you happened to be in her city for a weekend,
1. When would you send the re-start text? When you are in the city, say friday afternoon for a weekend meet or friday night itself or earlier in the week?
2. What can the restart text contain to stimulate maximum interest to meet?
Will be great to hear your opinions and experiences.
Cheers
Hey guys this is a separate girl from the one the OP mentioned. Will be good to hear your ideas on this.
No need to over think it. Nothing lost if you take a shot and it doesn't work. The good thing is text is pretty minimal effort
This is a semi cold restart Ive used in the past
"Hey how you doin doll face? I'm going to be in (city) on Friday and through Sunday. Let's catch up"
That's it
Her response will likely depend on her current branch (aka BF) situation, If she's locked in then there's nothing you can do. If there's a crack there then she'll respond.
If she responds unfavorably and you fell like you need or want to save face and spin the hamster a bit just respond "oops ,meant for someone else"
Saw this late. I sent the 'howya doin' text. Got back 'I am doing good how are you'. Then dropped the 'am in your town wanna catch up?' line but no reply after that. I am not sure if my hesitation in going for the kill in the past affected her view of me but that was more than a year ago.
Did you use the 'doll face'? I like using something like this because
a You aren't using her name which leaves the door open for lost of maneuvering
b It's very low form of 'innuendo'. You are setting the ground work for 'sexualizing' the convo (which is what you need to do to stay out of the FZ...again)
c It's different than anything most other guys will send so will pique her curiosity (I've used stupid shit that almost always get a response. Example "Sup lil poodle?").
Additionally
Might be splitting hairs but "am in your town wanna catch up?" is weaker than "let's catch up". One is passive the other is affirmative. Chix respond more to strength
Go job though. You got a response. Let's see what happens
Quote: (04-09-2012 05:34 PM)Gmac Wrote:
I can't take full credit. It's actually an adaptation of one of Roissy's old posts.
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/07/3...itur-game/
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A similar version of non sequitur game is reverse eavesdropping game (REG). This is where you send a text to a girl that has nothing to do with her and is clearly not meant for her, thus inducing her to “eavesdrop” on your putatively private conversation. The REG text should be constructed such that it hints at your high value and/or social proof. Something like “bring the chips and i’ll get the booze. it’s gonna be crazy.” Or “hey troublemaker, how are those red heels holding up?”, which is quite devious since you have any number of plausible excuses to explain the text to her — “I meant to text my friend. She stole a pair of shoes yesterday” — but not before she has stewed in her jealousy for a while. The beauty of the REG DHV (aaaand two consecutive acronyms! high five me!) is how effortlessly it slips under your target’s poseur identification alert system. It’s almost as if a third party is communicating your high value to her. Naturally, she will be inclined to text back immediately, and this will mindfuck her into thinking you are a higher value guy than she originally thought.
Works like a charm.
Good points Papaya, like I said before, she didnt reply after that. I have quoted a couple more re-start texts by gmac from another thread which can be pretty good for the viewers. Like you said, it has got to be fun to be different from all the other guys looking for a weekend lay in addition to convincing her to spend a prime time weekend night with you.