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I'm personally not a fan of playing games like this. Whenever I have been in the fog of war, it's been very unclear to me at the time on what the correct move is. I think you're in the fog of war yourself and want to do something so she comes running back. But I think based on your circumstances, if I were you I would just stop paying attention to her so she knows you're actually doing what your "text" says you are doing, but it does it in a way that is more effective: Communicating indirectly vs directly.

I know you were looking for a response for dread texts and I'm sure you will get some, just thought I would share my 2 cents.