Quote: (06-11-2017 09:11 AM)LINUX Wrote:
If you walk up to a woman you like in a cafe or bookshop and say " You know what, I got nothing fancy in my life and I don't even know what direction I'm heading in, but I would really like to make you dinner." If she finds you attractive, she will be riding your dick in 5 hours --Guaranteed. Why? Because you showed up like a man and that's what women are lacking in their lives -- real masculine men.
This is good advice. I've found that I've grown most and had the best results in life when I have thrown myself off the deep end, had no/few alternatives, had to plow forward and even a little or a lot of desperation. In such circumstances there is no time for FUD or not being yourself.
To channel such a mentality you need to convince yourself there is no other option.
Quote: (06-11-2017 08:31 PM)duedue Wrote:
For the example of walking up to a woman in a cafe, if you have sunken eyes, a tired and unsure voice, a big grin and a slouching posture and you utter that sentence, I don't think any girls would find that attractive.
There's always girls below your SMV.