By "whitewashed" I don't mean going fishing and hunting and listening to Arcade Fire Stompin Tom Connors. What I mean is to appear "white" (ie. not foreign) enough to appear as a palpable sexual partner. When you don't have a sexy archetype to fall back on (black mandingo/Latin lover) this is the only way to go.
Adopt a neutral Canadian accent and mannerisms - no jerky body language, no head bobbing, excessive arm gestures etc. A lot of ethnic guys (including Latinos and Southern Europeans) gesture a lot with their hands and this is an instant turn-off for your standard WASPy Canadian girl.
I know brown guys who grew up in ethnic enclaves in Scarborough and Brampton. These guys have a weird hybrid ghetto-FOB accent (think YouTuber Superwoman). If you've seen these guys in action at downtown Toronto clubs you know they get shut down hard and fast by white girls. Girls hear the ghetto-FOB accent and instanope out - they see it as low value and "immigrant".
How tall was the West Indian dude? Just curious.
Agree 100%.
Adopt a neutral Canadian accent and mannerisms - no jerky body language, no head bobbing, excessive arm gestures etc. A lot of ethnic guys (including Latinos and Southern Europeans) gesture a lot with their hands and this is an instant turn-off for your standard WASPy Canadian girl.
I know brown guys who grew up in ethnic enclaves in Scarborough and Brampton. These guys have a weird hybrid ghetto-FOB accent (think YouTuber Superwoman). If you've seen these guys in action at downtown Toronto clubs you know they get shut down hard and fast by white girls. Girls hear the ghetto-FOB accent and instanope out - they see it as low value and "immigrant".
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I have told this story before as how the two biggest players in my hometown was a Laos dude and a West Indian. Everybody thought the West Indian guy was South Asian as folks are ignorant in those parts. I tell you though, these two dudes terrorized my whole town and fucked and chucked half the girls in the city. My home town was 90% white and nobody ever gave them shit for being who they are.
How tall was the West Indian dude? Just curious.
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The only caveat I have is that as a ethnic or a minority your hygiene has to be 110%. You have to be the freshest dude in any venue. These white girls rarely shower but still think ethic people are not as clean. That is one boogie man that is like a cloak so just be proactive in making sure you a fresh and on point.
Agree 100%.