Quote: (06-03-2017 04:41 AM)captain_shane Wrote:
Quote: (06-03-2017 04:34 AM)Noir Wrote:
Keyword - 'mad'
They get mad because they are weak and come from a scarcity mindset. Thus, they apply universal rules to their small supply of women and expectations rise.
Everyone is replacable so there isn't really a reason to get mad. Guys also have their identity rooted in the partner they choose so it's logical they get mad when their partner is non-desirable (too many partners).
If you have a lock that can be unlocked by a lot of keys, thats a shitty lock. (women)
IF you have a key that can open a lot of locks, it's a master key (men)
It's their error in judgment that leads to them getting mad.
Girls aren't special on a long enough scale. It's about getting the best out of them before some other guy jumps in and ruins them.
Women are attracted to confidence and resources; we get confidence through our resources and through dating a lot of women (experience)
Men are attracted to looks and purity. The former being faked on a large scale (social media inflating value and looks for women) and purity diminishing over time due to frequency of partners.
You have been a member for 2 years, you shouldn't be comparing apples and oranges.
You bought into the feminist frame of conflating men and women (value-wise).
This is the same problem with multiculturalism. Each culture pedestalizes different virtues so your argument will only frustrate you.
Change your mindset. Date women from different backgrounds, ethnicities and age groups and you will see what I mean.
I'm more in the mold of guys like Distantlight and Blurredsevens. I'm a free love type of guy that doesn't judge girls on their past. Most likely a life long bachelor. I just find it funny when people are posting threads about how to bang virgins, and then asking in other threads where the holy virgin marriage material girls go to. No judgements on my end. Do what you want to do, I'm only asking questions, and especially philosophical socratic quesions to get points of view. I'm a voilin playin motha fucka that watches rome burn. But definite respect to anyone that feels they can change things. Sincerely good luck, I mean it.
Then we are on the same page. Just accept women for who they are and what they do. You choose who you spend your time with, if it bothers you then move on. If not, then fine.
Otherwise it's an uphill battle.