[Off The Reservation]

(06-01-2017 11:43 AM)Know1234 Wrote:  

(05-31-2017 10:59 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

Tough decision.

If her mom and other female relatives have aged well then I say it is worth considering.

Right now though on what you said my vote is to move on.

You will have to go with your gut in the end though.

The one defining trait to look at is in you know beyond doubt she is a ride or die bitch for you and has your best interests at heart. If that falters even slightly the answer should be no.

We haven't faced any serious challenges in our relationship up until this point so it would be hard to judge if she really is a ride or die chick. My gut tells me that she is.

She is surrounded by several long lasting marriages in her church. Also we have had several serious conversations where she speaks highly of women who don't divorce their husbands when things get tough. There is a lady at her church who stuck by her husbands side when he became mentally ill and lost his job etc.

The fact that she looks up to such women and is surrounded by them makes me think that she would stay if things went south with me down the line.

This could be the single most self-delusional statement on all of RVF. You are asking people to believe that this girl is of good character because someone in her church stuck by a husband with issues. Since when was character an automatically community issue rather than an individual? Does she have any virtues of her own or just tells you stories from her surroundings to keep you drinking the koolaid?

By default, even if you don't mean it: