Quote: (05-29-2017 09:46 AM)Chiosboy90 Wrote:
Dude i have a story for you. Last December after 2 month no sex strike, i had a date with a cute redhead rocker girl (she was reeeeealy my typ). We chated a lot and i actualy enjoyed writting with her. I wanted to "be myself" for fuck sake...at least once i thought. So, i asked her out for a metal party, was a fun night. We maked out and then i came to a crossroad in my head. The way i wanted to do was, asking the girl when her train is coming and escort her to the trainstation, give her a kiss and tell her how nice the evening was. BUT my "pua/roosh" whatever brain kicked in and I KNEW IT i wouldnt see her or/and she will be flaky as fuck BECAUSE good looking young girls (specialy in the metal scene trust me) have TONS of options so i pushed for sex with her. The next morning you wake up with a beauty in your bed and you smile at first, but also this bitter taste is there.
I know exactly the feeling. I can tell you about 10 stories of the exact opposite. This is what made me reluctantly push for sex on the first date even with a girl who I thought would be a "good" girl and maybe we could just hang around a few times before just treating each other as living breathing sex toys.
I did the hard part, approached group of girls, disarmed a really bitchy looking hottie, spoke a bit to her friends, got to know a tourist from Oz, talked for an hour or so, she stayed with me despite her friends asking if she wanted to dance. I said let's get out of here so we left the club. Then on the street: the crossroads. Just ask her to come home with you to watch a film. On a previous girl I used "Let's go to my place to watch THE HOBBIT." If a girl leaves her friends, leaves a club with you alone, very likely she will go home with you, and the rest. But I just froze. A player I knew was outside the club, a 200+ guy, he was like why don't you take her home. I said I don't know. She was telling me shit about living in a small bush town in Oz and her father dying and shit, we were walking my arm around her. I couldn't do it. I know if she had come home I could have ejaculated on her face. Just everything.
Another girl was a massage therapist, young 19 yo, seemed very sweet, I didn't want to just fuck her meaningless and ejaculate on her face like 3 hours after meeting her. When I wouldn't take her home, she got impatient and left.
Another girl I did fuck and called her the next day, her BF answered the phone. Does he know my sperm is swimming around in his girls vagine? And I thought that girl was a decent girl as well. These hoes just don't have any responsibility or care for their own actions.
Another girl, pretty, feminine, blonde, lawyer doing a PhD, 24 yo, met at a friend's party, we were one street from my home and I just ghosted on her. I wanted to contact her later maybe when she wasn't drunk. Again, the next day, some BF was in the picture. If I had banged her good the first night, she probably would have stuck around.
Shit just moves so much faster these days, you have to have killer instinct on 1st meeting and go for it, doesn't matter how innocent the girl looks. I can't enjoy dates really because I am thinking logistics always. Can't enjoy 1st date bangs as much, I am disgusted in everything, most of the time I know there will be some sad beta BF wondering where his girl is.
It's not just bad for the beta BF, it's bad for the "player" because very often I just get used for sex. The girls put us in the "player" box and they won't throw away 2 year relationship, or they are ashamed how fast they had sex, so it's hard to keep them.
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For me it was a very big shock (still is) cause i started bad with women and late and had 0 advice from a father or knowing friends that are good with women (most are pathetically bad)
My biggest shock was when i had a girl on friday, saturday and sunday at my place. spinning plates the right way. I had like 2-3 hours between to clean the apartment, fix myself up and change bed sheets lol. The shock was big because when i was like a teenager i thought just to have one girl, i would be so happy and in love and travel the world with her.
I've only reached that point once and it was very brief. I couldn't keep up with the gaming. But yes: first girl is dripping wet already, then you make her squirt, bed sheets soaked, also maybe some blood and piss on them somehow from 5 hour long session. Next girl just finished her period so over time period blood on the sheets, now I looked for anything to change the sheets because I only had two.
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Appreciate your replys very much Skank_Hunt. Nice to know im not the only one with this feeling. I tried to talk on that topic with male friends but they tell me i should be fucking happy to finaly have lots of dates.
Yes you should be happy to have a lot of dates. Most of those guys get near nothing. That's why they're mad like "why the fuck is this guy complaining? What an ungrateful asshole."
Still they don't understand what it involves to fuck that many girls, the pain of talking to girls you don't like just to fuck them, and the disappointment in girls when you see so many of them and they all behave in such similar manner. So when your guy friends think "dates" and "sex" they think the blue pill kind of stuff, good quality dates, no pressure, and sex whenever you decide. But no: it's approach x 100 , get numbers/bring home, plan logistics, always pressure, 1 bang and sometimes she stays sometimes she goes back to her BF, so then you start to see what women are really like. Your friends don't know.
BTW congrats for doing so well in Switzerland. Not an easy place to game.