[Dalaran1991]

(05-23-2017 09:41 AM)Graft Wrote:  

Not to derail the thread, but given the answers to the topic, I just don't see the point of monogamy with a girl who does the below. 21st century monogamy is a female designed system where:

1. She diminishes your immediate sexual options
2. She locks down your time and resources
3. She gets you to emotionally invest and confide in her as if she's your best friend, all under the guise of "love and loyalty"
4. She invades your male spaces and hobbies

All while she:
1. Gossips to her friends about your negative characteristics, while they encourage her to dump you
2. Fields options from other men, constantly looking for the better deal
3. Consistently makes mental notes of your shortcomings
4. Mercilessly stabs you in the back and leaves you with your head in your hands.

The only way to flip the script is for high-value men to refuse monogamy, because other than consistent sex, the companionship/friendship aspect isn't worth the pain.

Fix that for you.

Trying to generalize an entire age through the mainstream sexual dynamics, just makes you as mainstream as they are. Understand the dynamics and find a way to make it work for you.