[Ensam]

Don't be so accommodating. Never be afraid to walk away from a date if she's changing too much. Tell her that's the only time you're free and hit her up in a few days if you really want to. For chicks I don't know the first date is always inviting them along to stuff I'm already doing. This solves the venue/time negotiating problem. It also establishes that I'm busy doing cool things and I'm inviting them into my world. If they show up and you want to spend time with them then bounce to a place were you can be one on one. You can also invite multiple girls to the same event and if more then one shows up have your pick. Greatly reduces the anxiety about if a girl is gonna show up and I swear they can smell that shit on you even through text.