I think the first time was just the end of the texting convo, tbh I'm not sure where you were going with the Santa line anyway. Wouldn't take it as a negative.
The second one is definitely a soft no. Typically when a girl asks to text them what you're going to sexually do to them when you haven't established a frame by fucking them multiple times, they are asking for their entertainment. They don't read sexy texts and get turned on like us guys do early in the relationship. Half the time the 'what are you going to do to me' is a shit test anyway. My highest success response when she is asking you what you'll do is not to answer directly, but rather tell her what time to arrive and what clothing to wear (Be here at 9, wear a short skirt, heels, ponytail, etc etc). She'll like being told what to do and it's much more difficult to ignore a direct order like that than to ignore a 'thrill your ass' or 'bend you over' etc type of response. Then once she's over you can put on a leash and get her bent over and tell her to repeat 'I need discipline' or whatever BDSM shit you like to hear while you spank/fuck her.
Finally, don't be afraid to push boundaries if she's into the sub thing either, she'll remember you for the things no one else has done. Spank her till her ass is red, throat fuck her with her hands tied until she says your safe word, ass fuck her (typically a good segue into this is you have the girl bent over handcuffed after doggy for a bit, then just break out the lube and start putting it on her ass and say 'what am I doing' 'putting lube on my ass' 'what do you think I'm going to do next' 'put it in my ass' 'good girl'. Worse that can ever happen is she says it's too much and you laugh it off and say OK and move to the next sex act.
Well done on giving her a tour of your place while on a leash, that's pretty good lol. Go with Kaotic's advice and ignore her for a bit and hit her up in a week or two.
The second one is definitely a soft no. Typically when a girl asks to text them what you're going to sexually do to them when you haven't established a frame by fucking them multiple times, they are asking for their entertainment. They don't read sexy texts and get turned on like us guys do early in the relationship. Half the time the 'what are you going to do to me' is a shit test anyway. My highest success response when she is asking you what you'll do is not to answer directly, but rather tell her what time to arrive and what clothing to wear (Be here at 9, wear a short skirt, heels, ponytail, etc etc). She'll like being told what to do and it's much more difficult to ignore a direct order like that than to ignore a 'thrill your ass' or 'bend you over' etc type of response. Then once she's over you can put on a leash and get her bent over and tell her to repeat 'I need discipline' or whatever BDSM shit you like to hear while you spank/fuck her.
Finally, don't be afraid to push boundaries if she's into the sub thing either, she'll remember you for the things no one else has done. Spank her till her ass is red, throat fuck her with her hands tied until she says your safe word, ass fuck her (typically a good segue into this is you have the girl bent over handcuffed after doggy for a bit, then just break out the lube and start putting it on her ass and say 'what am I doing' 'putting lube on my ass' 'what do you think I'm going to do next' 'put it in my ass' 'good girl'. Worse that can ever happen is she says it's too much and you laugh it off and say OK and move to the next sex act.
Well done on giving her a tour of your place while on a leash, that's pretty good lol. Go with Kaotic's advice and ignore her for a bit and hit her up in a week or two.