Quote: (05-12-2017 06:16 AM)Hypno Wrote:
if you are getting blown out, like 20 in a row, you are doing something wrong. first, portray confident body language. second, look for IOIs. Third, your communication needs to be congruent.
Someone above said don't just open girls. That is great advice. Open guys, open older ladies, open the groundskeeping staff, etc. Its all good practice and helps you to improve your calibration skills.
Haven't done any approaches at my current school, but when I was in community college I would do direct approaches and more often than not the conversations went well and I would get their number (most went nowhere), so approach wise I think my vibe was confident.
Quote: (05-12-2017 11:59 AM)BrandonCodi Wrote:
Lots of good points here.
I think Giovanny had some brilliant posts shared here.
I also agree very strongly that your time here is indeed limited. I recently graduated from my university and it was way smaller than your school, brother. Population around 5k students. I always tried to pick up from my 1st year through to my 4th. The only time I had a reputation of being a player was in my 1st year when I lived in residence. I tried to make it a point not to bang girls that lived in my building, kind of like a co-worker setting. That didn't last though. I couldn't help it. There were just too many hot girls.
By 2nd year I ditched that reputation though. People forget. My game improved, I became a better person. Fact of the matter is that if I can overcome that reputation in a tiny ass university town, you can surely try pick up in a place where the population is 40k students.
The best approach though would be to not make it obvious. If you don't make it obvious then you will develop the reputation of being great with girls. If you have bad game you'll develop a reputation as the creepy dude who's always alone and trying to take girls home. I've been in both of those situations and one of them is a lot better than the other.
Best of luck, brother. Cheers
Good stuff man I appreciate it, and I guess it makes more sense to go indirect.